Fearlessat50

I thought the holidays were over. So I was surprised when I received two gift shipments today from clients’. I knew right away from the box that they were wine bottles. Four of them. Oh the joys of living in wine country! I told one of the clients’ last year at a business lunch that I didn’t drink. I didn’t give specifics, didn’t say I’m an alcoholic or anything like that. But still.

That’s ok, though. I got this.

I didn’t give it much thought, actually, other than to think these would make great re-gift items for the normies in my life .

It’s interesting to look back and remember that last year when I got the shipments, it took more effort. I ate a bunch of chocolate and went on a shopping binge, trading addictions. The year before that, I had a period of sobriety but relapsed when I received the gifts. Just couldn’t pass up such nice expensive wine. This time, I was like hmmm, that’s cool, but not for me. Not much different from the Sees candy chocolates.

I also realize I’ve changed my perspective. I used to think “I can’t drink anymore.” It made me feel deprived. While it’s true I can’t drink, my attitude is “I don’t drink.” When there is choice, it is empowering.

It does get better and easier, that’s for sure.

Guener

Thank you, I needed to hear something like this today.

least

Yes! Making it a choice, not a punishment, makes it fun and rewarding. I choose to wake up feeling good. I have never yet woken up sober and wished I had drank the night before.

Atlast9999

Healthyandsober

I want to be you. not only not drinking but you you are always so kind. congrats

Finalround

That was a fun read. Great perspective. It made me smile.

Always a pleasure to read your thoughts fearless. Thanks.

Fearlessat50

Healthyandsober, just remember this is not a change that happens over night. It’s a process and we need to take it one day at a time. Be patient with yourself and reflect on how you are getting stronger every day!