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Old 11-28-2018, 07:18 AM
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Cool Reasons to Quit

1. I won't have to apologize anymore.

2. I won't be broke anymore.

3. I don't like who I am when I drink.

4. I don't have to worry about getting a DWI.

5. I don't have to lie anymore when I say that I don't drink.

6. I won't feel like crap.

7. I don't have to back track the following morning to figure out what I did, where I went, who I called, how much money I spent, etc.

8. My head will be clearer and I'll feel better physically.

9. I will be a better wife and mother.

10. I won't have to plan my day around booze.

11. I will have more self respect.

I'll keep adding to this list. If anyone wants to add anything feel free!

Today is my Day 1 (again).
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Old 11-28-2018, 07:33 AM
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12. 3-6 more hours every day

13. Mornings are fun again

14. No more disorganized thoughts and confusion

15. No more drunk texting, facebooking, etc.

16. Metabolic health restored

17. All relationships are so much better

18. Home is cleaner

19. Food is cleaner
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Old 11-28-2018, 07:37 AM
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20. I will likely lose weight because when I drink, I eat everything in sight.

21. I won't die in my sleep from alcohol and trazodone.

22. My son deserves more of me. My husband deserves more of me.
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23 Instead of devoting many hours in planning drinking and looking sober- I can take my life off hold and being sober get on with living, not just existing

support and prayers to you sec.
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Old 11-28-2018, 06:52 PM
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26. I demand of myself to never be a drunk again, I deserve that and so does my family.
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27. I can look my self in the eyes when i shave in the morning.
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Old 11-28-2018, 07:45 PM
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This is my new mantra...

28. high blood pressure
29. physically weak man
30. poor sleep
31. sickly

I say it like this...blood pressure, weak, sleep, sick...over and over.

Whatever works and by any means necessary I will stay clean.

Thanks.
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You guys missed 25, or maybe I did, but here's 25. Today I don't have to live nor run in fear and loathing. 7.5 years and moving forward!
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Old 11-29-2018, 07:01 AM
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You guys missed 25, or maybe I did, but here's 25. Today I don't have to live nor run in fear and loathing. 7.5 years and moving forward!
I like this!
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Old 11-29-2018, 07:26 AM
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32. Because I want to quit drinking.
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Old 11-29-2018, 07:36 AM
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We should compile the list and publish it!!! Secretchord gets the profits.
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33. Won't have to 'rotate' stores I frequent for more booze.
34. Won't have to choke down nasty boxed wine because its the only booze I can easily afford and hide.
35. Won't have to listen to store owner's commentary on my consumption as they sell more booze to me.
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36. I'll never have to deal with these horrible cravings ever again!!!!
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37. Won't wake up feeling horrible and hating myself.
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Old 01-26-2019, 07:43 PM
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"Getting Bigger Each Day"

1. I won't have to apologize anymore.

2. I won't be broke anymore.

3. I don't like who I am when I drink.

4. I don't have to worry about getting a DWI.

5. I don't have to lie anymore when I say that I don't drink.

6. I won't feel like crap.

7. I don't have to back track the following morning to figure out what I did, where I went, who I called, how much money I spent, etc.

8. My head will be clearer and I'll feel better physically.

9. I will be a better wife and mother.

10. I won't have to plan my day around booze.

11. I will have more self respect.

I'll keep adding to this list. If anyone wants to add anything feel free!

Today is my Day 1 (again).[/QUOTE]
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Old 01-27-2019, 04:59 AM
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We should compile the list and publish it!!! Secretchord gets the profits.
I'd like to see a two column list, one column for "Reasons to quit," and the other for "Reasons to drink." It would be strictly for alcoholics, not normies. But not silly reasons like, "I like to miss work because of a hangover." I mean honest reasons an alcoholic should drink (or quit).

It might be good for laugh, even if it doesn't allow obviously silly answers. Mostly, I'd be curious to see reasons to drink. Here's one I would have put on the drink list at one time, although it would no longer be there: "Drinking is required at weddings/funerals to fully participate."
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Old 01-27-2019, 05:55 AM
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There's only one answer for "reasons to drink" - because I am an alcoholic.

Not sure if we are at 36 or 12??

12. Beautiful skin
13 My amazing, sweet, husband who is also in recovery
14 a Board Member position on a non-profit that works for recovery in the restaurant industry.
15 Parents and a brother who love me, and LIKE me again
16 Being present for my step kids
17 Legible handwriting
18 I won't die thanks to alcohol

Those are just a few of the reasons I quit and will not drink again.
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Old 01-27-2019, 08:04 AM
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Originally Posted by DriGuy View Post
I'd like to see a two column list, one column for "Reasons to quit," and the other for "Reasons to drink." It would be strictly for alcoholics, not normies. But not silly reasons like, "I like to miss work because of a hangover." I mean honest reasons an alcoholic should drink (or quit).

It might be good for laugh, even if it doesn't allow obviously silly answers. Mostly, I'd be curious to see reasons to drink. Here's one I would have put on the drink list at one time, although it would no longer be there: "Drinking is required at weddings/funerals to fully participate."
This is a key tool in the SMART program.
They have a 4 quadrant pros/cons list as follows

Advantages of drinking
Disadvantages of drinking
Advantages of quitting
Disadvantages of quitting

By the time you're done with all 4, read down each list in that order and when you get to the end, you'll be scratching your head wonder why it is you ever drank in the first place.
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