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Dating an alcoholic, I need help!

Old 10-14-2018, 11:03 AM
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Dating an alcoholic, I need help!

I have been dating an alcoholic for almost 3 years & I feel like the addict. Iím addicted to him & donít know why I canít let go. He is verbally, sexually, & physically abusive. I have lost friends because of him. My sons do not like him. He is mean & vindictive! I canít let go! I use to be friendly & outgoing & love doing things. Now I am just depressed & donít want to do anything. It is a long story but I just need someone to talk to. I know he is wrong for me.
I have become a Ďshell of the old meí, but I love him. He says he loves me but I know he is really just using me.
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Old 10-14-2018, 12:09 PM
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Shell, there are a lot of us who understand and who have been in your shoes. Join us over here and introduce yourself:

https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...ly-alcoholics/

Sometimes the site is a little quieter on weekends, but I assure you there are a lot of compassionate folks around who get you.
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Old 10-14-2018, 01:49 PM
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Been on both sides,myself..for sure check out that F&F link! No kid(s) should ever be around a toxic relationship.
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Old 10-14-2018, 01:55 PM
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You might also check out AlAnon in your city as a support for yourself.
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