Weekender Thread 5-8 October 2018
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Bimini, you reminded me that I’ve got a ways to go in being as actively grateful as I should be. A work in progress.
An English only guy here. Had several years of French and enjoyed it but that was way back in high school and undergrad. But, I’ve discovered duolingo and have been learning Italian. I think it’s good for my brain cells and I plan to get over there for a bit of hiking and village walking .
An English only guy here. Had several years of French and enjoyed it but that was way back in high school and undergrad. But, I’ve discovered duolingo and have been learning Italian. I think it’s good for my brain cells and I plan to get over there for a bit of hiking and village walking .
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Sunrise here in The Wild West just a short while ago. Signaling the opportunity to live it Sober. If not today, when?
I'm currently bustin' on mod'ding a pricey Euro-style Sofa Bed so that it replaces the so-so functionality of a Dinette in our RV Trailer. Parts bought. Plan in my Mind all thought out; at least to the degree I plan anything. The new 550 Watts of Solar Panels and 4 Golf Cart Batteries just installed are crankin', so we can luxuriate on- or off-Grid as desired. We launch on the next ~3 Week Desert Adventure in about a Week.
'Tis always the right time to cross over into the Promise Land of Sobriety. Here's the phenomenal Sonny Landreth & Eric Clapton to testify. All Crossroads Festival profits go to Clapton's Rehab in Antigua. Eric's currently fighting the knock-on effects of Alcoholic Neuropathy, but he's in prime condition here...
~ Promise Land ~ Sonny Landreth & Eric Clapton ~
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Sunrise here in The Wild West just a short while ago. Signaling the opportunity to live it Sober. If not today, when?
I'm currently bustin' on mod'ding a pricey Euro-style Sofa Bed so that it replaces the so-so functionality of a Dinette in our RV Trailer. Parts bought. Plan in my Mind all thought out; at least to the degree I plan anything. The new 550 Watts of Solar Panels and 4 Golf Cart Batteries just installed are crankin', so we can luxuriate on- or off-Grid as desired. We launch on the next ~3 Week Desert Adventure in about a Week.
'Tis always the right time to cross over into the Promise Land of Sobriety. Here's the phenomenal Sonny Landreth & Eric Clapton to testify. All Crossroads Festival profits go to Clapton's Rehab in Antigua. Eric's currently fighting the knock-on effects of Alcoholic Neuropathy, but he's in prime condition here...
~ Promise Land ~ Sonny Landreth & Eric Clapton ~
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So many great posts already, thanks.
Welcome Sydneyman, lorax, GreenSweater and gettingsmarter.
Loved your comment on seeing that snake, zoey! I can’t even imagine the size of property required to keep something like that, what with having to raise and keep its food
Being part of a TV show audience sounds interesting Tynesnyder. I hope you manage to grab hold of the mike at some stage, whether or not there is audience participation!
Welcome Sydneyman, lorax, GreenSweater and gettingsmarter.
Loved your comment on seeing that snake, zoey! I can’t even imagine the size of property required to keep something like that, what with having to raise and keep its food
Being part of a TV show audience sounds interesting Tynesnyder. I hope you manage to grab hold of the mike at some stage, whether or not there is audience participation!
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Hi, weekenders.
Still decompressing from my job-related activities.
Had another good session with my psychologist.
She encourages me to look how far I've moved forward, and it's darn hard for me to do. The same script keeps running in my head "I haven't done anything yet".
I feel I've been keep my emotional self together so long than now I need to let go and just do nothing for a while.
For the FIRST TIME EVER in my life I am free of immediate danger of any kind hanging over my head. And I still can't wrap my head around this feeling.
Have a good one, weekenders.
Still decompressing from my job-related activities.
Had another good session with my psychologist.
She encourages me to look how far I've moved forward, and it's darn hard for me to do. The same script keeps running in my head "I haven't done anything yet".
I feel I've been keep my emotional self together so long than now I need to let go and just do nothing for a while.
For the FIRST TIME EVER in my life I am free of immediate danger of any kind hanging over my head. And I still can't wrap my head around this feeling.
Have a good one, weekenders.
Thanks for the nice pic, as usual MesaMan. I read Eric Clapton’s autobiography recently. Brutally honest and a good read if you ask me. It also deals with the setting up of the rehab facility in Antigua.
Welcome to Weekenders Lorax, sydneyman, GreenSweater!
Good to see you gettingsmarter!
Happy Canadian Thanksgiving Dragon and all our Canadian Weekenders.
I think I have some mild Alcoholic Neuropathy symptoms, nothing serious though.
I'm jealous Tynesider, I've always had the hots for Carol Vorderman and Rachel Riley from Countdown. It all depends on what letters are drawn doesn't it?
Good to see you gettingsmarter!
Happy Canadian Thanksgiving Dragon and all our Canadian Weekenders.
I think I have some mild Alcoholic Neuropathy symptoms, nothing serious though.
I'm jealous Tynesider, I've always had the hots for Carol Vorderman and Rachel Riley from Countdown. It all depends on what letters are drawn doesn't it?
Hi everyone
Welcome to all the newcomers, this is a great place for support! As long as you’re not scared of snakes and spiders lol
Good that you’re going to the doc Tynesyder. I know my mental state fluctuates a lot and it’s a good idea to talk about it even if you’re feeling good because there seem to be lots of ups and downs when you get sober. Well there has been for me anyway, and others seem to experience the roller coaster ride of sobriety. Lots of emotions that were previously suppressed by alcohol.
Yoga is a way better choice Zoey well done. I haven’t managed any yoga this week but I will definitely be getting back to yoga classes as soon as I get home, it’s so great for physical fitness but also helps my mental health and helps keep me away from the bottle
How did the catch up with the people from rehab go Manta? Well done for pushing yourself to get out and about! I’m inherently introverted and am finding it harder to be sociable without alcohol for a prop. People always thought I was very sociable but I’m realising it really was what they call “dutch courage “ here. I’m not sure why it’s called that? Using alcohol for false courage to meet people anyway.... I have just made it through 3 days with 8 people at a resort and I was sober the entire time. I feel exhausted but relieved. I’m sure they thought I was a bit subdued, but having recently lost my parents they were very kind and understanding. I managed some beach time and a few fun activities in between the boozy lunches that continued on to boozy dinners. Heading home today. It will be very nice to be home and away from all of these bars and everyone drinking all day!
Have a great weekend everyone
Welcome to all the newcomers, this is a great place for support! As long as you’re not scared of snakes and spiders lol
Good that you’re going to the doc Tynesyder. I know my mental state fluctuates a lot and it’s a good idea to talk about it even if you’re feeling good because there seem to be lots of ups and downs when you get sober. Well there has been for me anyway, and others seem to experience the roller coaster ride of sobriety. Lots of emotions that were previously suppressed by alcohol.
Yoga is a way better choice Zoey well done. I haven’t managed any yoga this week but I will definitely be getting back to yoga classes as soon as I get home, it’s so great for physical fitness but also helps my mental health and helps keep me away from the bottle
How did the catch up with the people from rehab go Manta? Well done for pushing yourself to get out and about! I’m inherently introverted and am finding it harder to be sociable without alcohol for a prop. People always thought I was very sociable but I’m realising it really was what they call “dutch courage “ here. I’m not sure why it’s called that? Using alcohol for false courage to meet people anyway.... I have just made it through 3 days with 8 people at a resort and I was sober the entire time. I feel exhausted but relieved. I’m sure they thought I was a bit subdued, but having recently lost my parents they were very kind and understanding. I managed some beach time and a few fun activities in between the boozy lunches that continued on to boozy dinners. Heading home today. It will be very nice to be home and away from all of these bars and everyone drinking all day!
Have a great weekend everyone
Turned down an offer to go to a pub. Grilled some salmon and veggies, and settled in for some family time and a bit of painting. Feels good to actually RELAX on the weekend. I've been doing it all wrong for so long.
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Relaxing weekends are the best GreenSweater! I always had that point of view but what I consider to be relaxing has changed massively. It's no longer doing nothing and maintaining an even even level of alcohol in my blood, these days it's also painting, taking care of my plants and other nice activities. Or maybe even some socialising (or a lot of it lately).
Have a good and productive Saturday PJ! I'd love to hear/see how it's going for all your new plants! It sounds like a fun project
I'm off to bed, way too late. Tomorrow I'll do some re-potting, might try and ride my bike if I feel brave enough (last time I did it, I broke some bones), then I'll meet a friend in the afternoon and go to my AA meeting in the evening.
Have a good and productive Saturday PJ! I'd love to hear/see how it's going for all your new plants! It sounds like a fun project
I'm off to bed, way too late. Tomorrow I'll do some re-potting, might try and ride my bike if I feel brave enough (last time I did it, I broke some bones), then I'll meet a friend in the afternoon and go to my AA meeting in the evening.
Welcome to the weekender Lorax sydneyman spiritman and GreenCardigan
Nice to see you Bim
It's way too early to get up but hell I fell asleep too early and I am paying the price. OK coffee at 03h28. Why not.
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Nice to see you Bim
It's way too early to get up but hell I fell asleep too early and I am paying the price. OK coffee at 03h28. Why not.
V.
Beautiful photo Mesa! Thanks for sharing it!
I arrived after 5-1/2 hours of driving and been helping out with the caregiving since I arrived. Caring for a child with a disability is not easy and I am glad I am able to lend a hand. I am getting a crash course in all of this, as well as caring for the 3 dogs, too.
My family are non-drinkers yet there is a bottle of Tito's in the freezer which I understand was a leftover from a visit by the in-laws of my sister-in-law recently. Funny that I just looked at it and pulled out the homemade ice cream as I had planned. I didn't even think twice about it.
Hoping to get a good nights sleep as the next three days will be non-stop kid duty since there is no school. I am used to being alone all the time, so this is quite a different situation for me. Good night or good morning, depending on which part of the world you are in.
I arrived after 5-1/2 hours of driving and been helping out with the caregiving since I arrived. Caring for a child with a disability is not easy and I am glad I am able to lend a hand. I am getting a crash course in all of this, as well as caring for the 3 dogs, too.
My family are non-drinkers yet there is a bottle of Tito's in the freezer which I understand was a leftover from a visit by the in-laws of my sister-in-law recently. Funny that I just looked at it and pulled out the homemade ice cream as I had planned. I didn't even think twice about it.
Hoping to get a good nights sleep as the next three days will be non-stop kid duty since there is no school. I am used to being alone all the time, so this is quite a different situation for me. Good night or good morning, depending on which part of the world you are in.
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