He said He moves in with me or he’s moving on - Page 8 - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information
Go Back   SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information >
Register Blogs FAQ Members List Calendar Arcade Mark Forums Read





Reply
LinkBack Thread Tools
Old 04-19-2019, 12:23 AM   #141 (permalink)
Member
 
Free2bme888's Avatar
 

Join Date: May 2018
Location: Colorado
Posts: 1,614
Update:

I have moved to the western United States about 1000 miles away. I have kept him blocked off of my phone since February 12 when he asked me for the shelving in the garage back.

He has emailed me a few times, asking me why I have blocked him and how much that hurt him and how sad he is that we had a failed relationship. Oh my goodness, did he forget that he was the one that wanted to ‘move in or move on’?

I have started seeing someone who lives about 3 1/2 hours away. In this part of the country, everyone is far away from the little town I moved to. He does not drink, is a little bit quirky like myself. Seeing him on the weekends and we plan to go camping in Utah the following weekend. He is financially stable, and has no intentions of moving from his home. It perfectly fits my needs right now.

Also getting a lot of self actualization and getting out in nature after work. My new job is pretty great except for a mean person here and there.

My new friend, Chip, had a quote from John Wayne on his computer on a post it note:

“I won’t be wronged. I won’t be insulted. I won’t be laid a hand on. I don’t do these things to other people and I require the same from them.” – John Wayne

I hope everyone out there is doing great in their Journey to becoming more whole human being—loving and treating themselves/bodies as though they are loving themselves.

I have so much less financially right now than I ever have. I am living in a 10’ x 10’ room renting from someone in a small town in western Colorado. I hardly have any of my belongings with me.

I couldn’t be happier.


I am, FREE
__________________
Free


Struggling to live FREE

“The choice is ours: we can either be a host to God, or a hostage to our ego”. Wayne Dyer
Free2bme888 is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 6 Users Say Thank You to Free2bme888 For This Useful Post:
Dee74 (04-19-2019), Guener (04-19-2019), MesaMan (04-19-2019), MLD51 (04-19-2019), mnjen (04-19-2019), trailmix (04-19-2019)
Old 04-19-2019, 01:04 AM   #142 (permalink)
Ocean Lover!
 
MantaLady's Avatar
 

Join Date: Apr 2018
Location: You know nothing Jon Snow - UK
Posts: 1,772
I am super chuffed for you Free!! xx
__________________
MantaLady is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 4 Users Say Thank You to MantaLady For This Useful Post:
Dee74 (04-19-2019), Free2bme888 (04-19-2019), MLD51 (04-19-2019), trailmix (04-19-2019)
Old 04-19-2019, 02:19 AM   #143 (permalink)
Administrator
 
Dee74's Avatar
 

Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Australia
Posts: 179,218
Blog Entries: 1
Wonderful update Free

D
__________________
Dee74 is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to Dee74 For This Useful Post:
Free2bme888 (04-19-2019), MLD51 (04-19-2019), trailmix (04-19-2019)
Old 04-19-2019, 02:30 AM   #144 (permalink)
Member
 
Guener's Avatar
 

Join Date: Oct 2018
Location: New Mexico
Posts: 1,341
It's a small town, a small room, how will they ever contain your big heart, Free? It's all a brand new road ahead of you, with the comfort of nigh upon a year of sobriety under your belt, too. Don't let the meanies drag you down.
Guener is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 4 Users Say Thank You to Guener For This Useful Post:
Free2bme888 (04-19-2019), MantaLady (04-19-2019), MLD51 (04-19-2019), trailmix (04-19-2019)
Old 04-19-2019, 03:05 AM   #145 (permalink)
Guest
 
sweetichick's Avatar
 

Join Date: May 2016
Location: Australia
Posts: 1,804
Congratulations Free.
sweetichick is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to sweetichick For This Useful Post:
Free2bme888 (04-19-2019), MLD51 (04-19-2019)
Old 04-19-2019, 05:43 AM   #146 (permalink)
Member
 
biminiblue's Avatar
 

Join Date: Mar 2014
Posts: 18,242
It sounds like you're doing great!

Gee, I wonder if your Chip is the one that got away from me in the seventies. We were a mess, but we were barely out of our teens and people do get better.

If so, tell him hi!
__________________
The cure for anything is salt water: sweat, tears, or the sea.
~ Isak Dinesen
biminiblue is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to biminiblue For This Useful Post:
Free2bme888 (04-19-2019), MLD51 (04-19-2019)
Old 04-19-2019, 07:25 AM   #147 (permalink)
Giving up is NOT an option.
 
MLD51's Avatar
 

Join Date: Jan 2015
Location: Western Wisconsin
Posts: 6,397
This is a wonderful update, and I'm so happy for you!
__________________
A few bad chapters does not mean your story is over.

12/4/2014 - The day I started a new chapter.
MLD51 is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to MLD51 For This Useful Post:
Free2bme888 (04-19-2019)
Old 04-19-2019, 10:04 AM   #148 (permalink)
Member
 

Join Date: May 2012
Location: canada
Posts: 6,081
oh wow, Free!
so happy for you!
fini is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to fini For This Useful Post:
Free2bme888 (04-19-2019)
Old 04-19-2019, 07:09 PM   #149 (permalink)
Member
 

Join Date: Oct 2018
Posts: 556
Very inspirational update. A guy gave me that ultimatum and moved in, we’re married now and on the verge of a divorce. You did yourself a huge favor. I wish I had.
mariposa is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to mariposa For This Useful Post:
Free2bme888 (04-19-2019)
Reply


Currently Active Users Viewing this Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off




All times are GMT -7. The time now is 06:29 AM.