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Old 08-22-2018, 11:04 AM
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Hello from Somerset.

Greetings!
I'm a 48 year old mother of three and after many pathetic attempts at moderation am now determined to be AF. I'm on 16 days today.
Best wishes to you all,
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Old 08-22-2018, 11:07 AM
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Hello there Betty and welcome to Sober Recovery!

16 days is fantastic, well done.

You may find the following thread for the Class of August 2018 of interest. Also keep an eye out for the weekender threads for weekend support.

https://www.soberrecovery.com/forums...-part-two.html

I really like Somerset, it's a most beautiful county.

Best wishes and good luck.

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Old 08-22-2018, 11:20 AM
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Congratulations on Day 16! Yes, I have found that not drinking is easier than figuring out the moderation thing. Like the old saying goes, "Two is not enough and one is too many." I think if I were a "moderate" drinker, I wouldn't be stressing about how to moderate, lol.
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Old 08-22-2018, 11:20 AM
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Somerset! Nice. I was born in the west country (for some reason it blanks out the city name when I write it, but just north of Somerset) but live in East Coast America now

Congratulations on 16 days. MANY people here will agree with you (myself included) that it is much easier to avoid alcohol completely than it is to try moderating.
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Hi Betty and Welcome,

I'm glad you know that moderation doesn't work for us alcoholics. Congratulations on Day 16!
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Old 08-22-2018, 11:38 AM
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Welcome Betty! Well done on your 16 days!

NerfThis - I took a guess at the city you meant - the one with Clifton suspension bridge - and yep it blocks it out. The only reason I can think of for why is cockney rhyming slang! That's funny!
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Welcome, Betty.
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Old 08-22-2018, 11:47 AM
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Welcome, congrats on day 16. Getting sober for our children is such a gift.
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Old 08-22-2018, 11:48 AM
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Hi Betty,

16 days is awesome. Sending you lots of good thoughts and positivity. I'm on Day 4 and really pleased to be here.
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Old 08-22-2018, 11:49 AM
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Originally Posted by Betty73 View Post
Greetings!
I'm a 48 year old mother of three and after many pathetic attempts at moderation am now determined to be AF. I'm on 16 days today.
Best wishes to you all,
Betty
Hello Betty,

I'm in Minehead a couple of times a month, planning on moving there full time soon

16 days AF is great going!
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Old 08-22-2018, 11:53 AM
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Welcome to the family Betty! I hope our support can help you stay sober for good.
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Old 08-22-2018, 11:54 AM
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Originally Posted by decchemist View Post
Welcome Betty! Well done on your 16 days!

NerfThis - I took a guess at the city you meant - the one with Clifton suspension bridge - and yep it blocks it out. The only reason I can think of for why is cockney rhyming slang! That's funny!
Hahaha! At first I thought maybe it was something to do with keeping people's locations and identities anonymous, but the title of the thread has Somerset in it :P
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Old 08-22-2018, 12:10 PM
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Nice to see a West Country theme, I am up the road a bit in Glostershire.

Glostershire born and bred - strong of arm and thick of head 😳
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Old 08-22-2018, 12:17 PM
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Hi Betty

Welcome

You are in good company. Pretty much everyone here tried moderation again and again and again in failed miserably every time. Seems that once you pass a a certain point with the drink we can never moderate no matter how long we stay sober. Quitting now will save you so much pain in the long run.
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Old 08-22-2018, 01:51 PM
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Hi Betty. North Yorkshire here. Welcome and congratulations on 16 days. Its worth it so keep your seat on the sober bus. Xx
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Hi Betty. Congrats on your 16 days.

I tried for decades to control the amounts I drank. It never worked once. So great to be completely free of it. You can do it.
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Welcome to SR Betty

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Old 08-23-2018, 12:24 AM
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Welcome, Betty! This is a great place to be
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