always thinking about not drinking starts to get taxing |
Originally Posted by JADIII
(Post 6975980)
Also, many of you post here each day or at least check in. How/why does that help you? Is it something that makes you open your eyes to things or is it something that makes the AV go away?
Originally Posted by Awake61
(Post 6976202)
Nonsensical, you wrote exactly what I was thinking reading this thread. Thank you. My little child is screaming today, but I've put her in the corner. |
Originally Posted by lessgravity
(Post 6970055)
I'm a father who f'ed up along the same lines as you are. But you have the power to live a better life. And children are incredibly forgiving. |
Cravings are like waves, all you need to do is to learn how to surf x Early recovery is bloody hard and sure those cravings are really intense however not impossible to overcome. To help yourself, can you think of ways you can surf these cravings until they pass (which they do and thats not by drinking btw) ? What do you think could help you? My suggestion is to Have a plan. Write it out “this is what im going do when the urge to drink comes on me” when you have an action plan, refer to it and carry it out, each and everytime the urge comes on to drink x For example, Distraction, (specfic ways of how you can distract yourself will help) reaching out for help, anything at all to help these cravings pass so long as it not a drink x |
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