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Old 07-01-2018, 07:30 PM
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"I also have learned that starting with compassion when it comes to relationships is the most powerful way to elevate a relationship. It helps heal those relationships that are suffering and takes already good relationships to amazing places."

thank you, MP, for this powerful, well-articulated statement. thank you much.
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Old 07-01-2018, 09:24 PM
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Hi Horn,

I hope your wife is okay, and that you were able to talk through things.

It is great that you do so much for her daughter, and as a parent I know we do those things because we want to for our kids, and not to have them feel obligated about anything we do.

I have three kids, two of them are teenagers, and there are days they want to be on their own, and want their privacy, I think that is a pretty typical teenage reaction.
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Old 07-02-2018, 08:45 AM
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Hey Horn,

I have been thinking about you as I read through this thread last night. I hope everyone is well.
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Old 07-02-2018, 08:50 AM
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You have gone silent for a while Horn, so I'm hoping everything is ok and she is home safely.
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Old 07-02-2018, 12:19 PM
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Hey guys. Got swept in family activity. So I got a hold of my wife at around 6:45 yesterday morning. She passed out in her car, in the parking lot of her friendís apartment. I was very mad but I am over it now. She promised next time to at least text me.

I was worried sick. In any event, I did learn a lot from this ordeal. Thanks for all the words of wisdom and support.
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Old 07-02-2018, 12:25 PM
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If you dealt with this as well as it appears you did, well done sir.

Sounds like you have a lot of work ahead.
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Old 07-02-2018, 12:53 PM
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If you dealt with this as well as it appears you did, well done sir.

Sounds like you have a lot of work ahead.
Yep. But she was very very contrite, so that helped.😊 but yeah, I have long way to go.
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Old 07-02-2018, 01:16 PM
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Dangerous for her - but I'm so glad she's ok.
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Dangerous for her - but I'm so glad she's ok.
Yep
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Happy to hear no one got hurt and no one went to jail. Time to move on.
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Old 07-02-2018, 06:07 PM
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Good to hear your wife was okay. I still sense red flag warning for you, but you probably know that. I send you prayers for strength to remain sober and get through this rough patch.
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Old 07-02-2018, 11:03 PM
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I'm glad your wife is okay.
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Old 07-03-2018, 04:23 AM
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I'm glad your wife is okay Horn and both of you are getting through this.
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