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Old 06-12-2018, 10:35 PM
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Old 06-13-2018, 12:09 AM
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Snuf - I'll be away for a few days so won't be posting. My thoughts are still with you though. Much love x x x
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Old 06-13-2018, 02:11 AM
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Hope you come back to us soon Snufkin.
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Old 06-13-2018, 02:45 AM
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Hiya snufkin...we miss you in Interactive Games...

I know nothing about cutting, but I so hope you will seek medical help!! Please take good care.
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Old 06-13-2018, 03:12 AM
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Originally Posted by leanabeana View Post
It just occurred to me that Snuf is probably not responding because she may be in the hospital. I hope that's the case and it will lead her on a path to healing.
Wanted to let you guys know that one of our lovely SRs has been in contact....hopefully Snuf will come back.....I'm much happier now I know she is talking to someone here.
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Old 06-13-2018, 03:23 AM
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We can be really mean to ourselves, meaner than we'd ever be to someone else. Snufkin, there's a part of you that wants the best for yourself or you wouldn't be getting sober. It's within your power to nurture and strengthen that part going forward.

Btw I see from your notes you're reading some Murakami . Kafka on the Shore is a great book! Other ones of his I think are top notch are 1Q84 and The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle..
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Old 06-13-2018, 04:37 AM
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Hi Snuf! Missing you! I hope you come back soon. Sending tons of cyber hugs and love. (((SNUF)))
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Old 06-16-2018, 08:32 PM
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Snuf, lady, I missed this. I've self harmed plenty drunk and it's scary when the feeling creeps up sober too. I hope you're ok. I hope you're feeling better. Please PM anytime. I know maybe you're sleeping when I'm up over on this side of the pond but I'll reply asap. Much love girl <3
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Old 06-17-2018, 04:34 AM
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Hi, Snuf!
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Old 06-17-2018, 04:39 AM
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Hi Snuf - I saw you on the 24 hour thread. I'm glad you're around. How are you?
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Old 06-17-2018, 04:45 AM
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Not sure snuf is reading this thread guys.... s
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Old 06-17-2018, 04:58 AM
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Old 06-17-2018, 05:02 AM
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Hi Snuf, a fellow Scot here. I hope you are ok and come back soon. I always enjoy reading your posts. I used to date a girl who self-harmed by cutting due to her excruciating shyness and inability to function comfortably in a social setting. She got over her problems eventually. I like to think that I had a part to play. Anyway, all the best.
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Old 06-17-2018, 10:05 PM
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Hey Snufkin I hope you’re feeling better and I’m so glad you’ve checked back in
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Old 06-18-2018, 12:26 PM
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Oh dear... I was going to forget about this thread forever, but I just had to post to say a massive THANK YOU for all your amazing messages and words of support, I’m a bit overwhelmed by your kindness right now... I wish I had read your posts earlier, but I was convinced that I’m worthless, stupid and everyone here hates me, and it took a whiiileeee to log back in... Umm I know, not the first time this happens...

I’m so sorry for not replying - first I was in the hospital, and then I was just too embarrassed...

If anyone’s still wondering, I’m back on track and I’m gonna keep fighting.
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Old 06-18-2018, 12:28 PM
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Always believe how much we love you, Snuf. Cuz it's true.
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Old 06-18-2018, 01:02 PM
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Originally Posted by SnazzyDresser View Post
We can be really mean to ourselves, meaner than we'd ever be to someone else. Snufkin, there's a part of you that wants the best for yourself or you wouldn't be getting sober. It's within your power to nurture and strengthen that part going forward.

Btw I see from your notes you're reading some Murakami . Kafka on the Shore is a great book! Other ones of his I think are top notch are 1Q84 and The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle..
Oh man, Iím sorry for not replying... Thank you for such kind words and advice. I want to believe that I can make my self-destructive part weaker and weaker till itís gone.

I loooove Murakami, The Wind-Up Bird and 1Q84 are defo his best novels, but Kafka one the Shore is still my favourite... not sure why.
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Old 06-18-2018, 01:06 PM
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So much support, love and advice here, I think I’m gonna cry.

I hate how delusional and paranoid I can get...
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Old 06-18-2018, 01:18 PM
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I think I adopted you without your permission....you know how much I love you.
This just makes me prouder....I know it is not easy for you to look at this...

There was some incredibly good advice I think....one post in particular....I was hoping you would see this:

Originally Posted by b0glerd69 View Post
Hi Snuf, a fellow Scot here. I hope you are ok and come back soon. I always enjoy reading your posts. I used to date a girl who self-harmed by cutting due to her excruciating shyness and inability to function comfortably in a social setting. She got over her problems eventually. I like to think that I had a part to play. Anyway, all the best.
Anyway, so glad you are fighting for you darling snuf. You are very special and somewhat adored around here....hugs. ♥♥
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Old 06-18-2018, 03:00 PM
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Sooo happy to see your replies snuff......
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