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Old 06-01-2018, 02:00 PM
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50 days - reborn with a newborn...

I'm a sober, non-drinking, new father who welcomed a beautiful baby girl into the world two days ago. I have a wonderful, beautiful 11 year -old son who is so happy to have a sister finally. My new wife is over-joyed with this child, in love with being a mother.

I was calm, clear-eyed, in the moment for the birth and have been for every waking, sleep-deprived second since she came to me.

I'm still working on being a better, sober, father with my son and have a great relationship with him, regardless of the selfish idiocy I put him through when I valued alcohol more than my responsibilities as a father and a man. Those days are gone, forever.

I could not have come to his point without the exploration, support and wisdom of SR. Thank you all, you know who you are and I bet some of you don't, but thank you so so much.

It's a BETTER LIFE sober. I really feel that in all of my person. I'm ready to endure the highs and lows, mundanity and wonder, beauty and heart-break, mistakes and wins, all of what life has in store for all of us if we have the guts and the strength to finally put the booze down.

Here's to a sober weekend, a sober June, a sober summer and a better world for us and all who we know and love.
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Congrats!!!
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Such a happy and encouraging post!! Congratulations to you!!
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Congratulations LG! How awesome you must feel to know your daughter will never see you drunk.

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Old 06-01-2018, 02:23 PM
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Congratulations! What a wonderful way to celebrate-being completely present for such a special moment. All the best!
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Congrats on the new arrival!
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Congratulations LG! Wonderful news ❤️
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Congratulations, LG! I am so happy for you and for your family.
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Yay! This is the best post!
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Congratulations!!
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Oh wow!!!!!!!

Congratulations, lessgravity !

Simply fabulous news!
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Congratulations! So excited for you! That is the best gift ever for being sober all of these months - yea?
Much happiness to you and your family
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Congrats on the new arrival less - and on your continuing recovery

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Old 06-01-2018, 04:24 PM
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Less - Congratulations to you and your beautiful daughter, of course her beautiful mother! What a wondrous reason to get sober, welcome your new addition with fresh eyes and all the awe that babies bring! You're off to a wonderful start and I couldn't be more happy for you (unless I was one of the grammies!) cheers to you. Hope you all are able to get some rest, A beautiful start to a great life!
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Awwww babies! A fricken congrats lg.

I can still remember the smell of my little girls head when she was tiny.......gulp!
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I am very happy for you all, les.
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, very happy for you and your family, best wishes and enjoy!
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Just throwing another congrats on and thank you for sharing this uplifting post!
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