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Old 05-13-2018, 12:56 PM
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Old 05-13-2018, 01:00 PM
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Hey, Melly. I believe most cities have some sort of a detox facility where there are sliding scales for payment . When I used the one in my county I didn't have to pay anything.
If things get bad, don't hesitate to go to the ER. Even if you don't have money they must treat you, and withdrawals can be life threatening. I had seizures when I stopped all at once, but when I went to the hospital everyone was very kind and understanding. I wish there was an easy way to get sober, but there just isn't.
Wishing you all the best. You are in my thoughts.
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Old 06-13-2018, 05:22 PM
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Hi guys... In case anyone would like a joyful update..

Through the grace and strength of God alone I managed to successfully taper and I have been sober for 9 days!!!!!! 😁 I am absolutely elated.

I cut down way over half to 3 drinks a day for a few days, just enough to keep the shakes mild and then two for a few days and then none.

God is SO SO good! There is absolutely no way I could have done it otherwise.

Also... God decided I needed help staying permanently sober because I just found out today I am pregnant ❤❤❤ I found out very early... Haven't missed my monthly yet, so absolutely no harm done to the baby.

Thank you all for your encouragement, I will definitely be hanging out on the threads here. Being pregnant means no going back for me and there is absolutely NO chance of me taking a drink.
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Old 06-13-2018, 05:58 PM
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Nine days sober is a great start! Glad you are sober now. Just don't pick up that first drink and you'll be fine.
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Old 06-13-2018, 06:35 PM
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Melly, go see a doctor. Alcoholism is VERY common and not the stigma you are worrying yourself with. Simply...I want to quit. I am finding it difficult because I have been drinking so much I am concerned with withdrawals. Can you help me?
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Congrats on the news Melly and well done on your sober time

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Old 06-13-2018, 07:27 PM
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Melly, go see a doctor. Alcoholism is VERY common and not the stigma you are worrying yourself with. Simply...I want to quit. I am finding it difficult because I have been drinking so much I am concerned with withdrawals. Can you help me?
I feel as if you didn't read my last post..... Lol the only doc I'm seeing is my obgyn. I am sober and healthy and pregnant and will absolutely NOT drink with a life growing inside me. ❤
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Old 06-13-2018, 07:28 PM
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Congrats on the news Melly and well done on your sober time

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Thank you!!
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Old 06-13-2018, 07:45 PM
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MELLY my apologies! I read page one in your thread...did not realize there was a page two and responded. SO SO SOrry. Congratulations.
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Old 06-14-2018, 06:44 AM
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I wrote a post jumping ahead and didn't see your update first- re-reading now I am so pleased about your current life. Keep going! Planning for after you have the baby like you might already be doing, is a great idea, too!
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Old 06-14-2018, 06:57 AM
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I'm glad you're doing well, Molly.

As August mentioned, planning for post-baby is a good idea, too.
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Old 06-14-2018, 07:58 AM
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Wonderful news Melly! Congratulations both on the new baby and your sobriety.
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Old 06-14-2018, 08:01 AM
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I was the same way...I didn't want any documentation either. One day I just decided to suck it up and ride out the detox at home. I am currently on day 6 and I can tell you, it is SO worth the hell I went through!
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Old 06-14-2018, 08:02 AM
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I feel as if you didn't read my last post..... Lol the only doc I'm seeing is my obgyn. I am sober and healthy and pregnant and will absolutely NOT drink with a life growing inside me. ❤
Oh shoot, I missed this post and just responded to your first post on this thread! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!
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Old 06-14-2018, 02:47 PM
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Thank you all!!! And yes detoxing at home is a bear but sooooo worth it! I feel wonderful. I'm sure it's the temporary high and it'll go away but still lol
And yes planning for post baby is very good idea and I will definitely do that as well
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