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Gilmer 03-14-2018 07:50 PM

“No Man Is an Island” Weekender: March 15-19, 2018
 
This famous adage is from a beautiful and true meditation written by John Donne in 1624.

“No man is an island,
Entire of itself,
Every man is a piece of the continent,
A part of the main.
If a clod be washed away by the sea,
Europe is the less.
As well as if a promontory were.
As well as if a manor of thy friend’s
Or of thine own were:
Any man’s death diminishes me,
Because I am involved in mankind,
And therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls;
It tolls for thee.”

You matter in this world. No matter how worthless or isolated you feel, it makes no difference. You matter, and no one can take that away from you.

Believe it, because it’s the truth.

Likewise, no matter how self-sufficient you think you are, you stand to benefit from other members of the human race—whether from their companionship, their insights, or even their bad examples.

We alcoholics in particular need to learn from others who have gone before us, because doing everything “our way” has often led to a dead end.

Know your value—but realize that others are in the same family, and stay humble. Be willing to take input from those who care.

And give of yourself to others—because in the grand tapestry of the universe, you are included and you do make a difference.

Dee74 03-14-2018 07:52 PM

Great message Gilmer thank you :)

Nerf gun

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Gilmer 03-14-2018 07:53 PM

:) :)

least 03-14-2018 08:06 PM


Nerf gun
haha :)

SoberLeigh 03-14-2018 09:26 PM

Love the title for the thread, Gilmer!

SoberLeigh 03-14-2018 09:28 PM

Have always loved the John Donne poem.

Thanks.

SnazzyDresser 03-14-2018 09:34 PM

Well Donne, Gilmer!

theVman31 03-15-2018 02:21 AM

Hello Weekenders.
Thanks for the thread Gilmer.
I am happy to be here for the weekend and staying humble :)
Later friends,
V.

Nonsensical 03-15-2018 03:09 AM

IN! Thanks Gilmer!

MidnightBlue 03-15-2018 03:17 AM

Thank you, Gilmer.

I am in)

theVman31 03-15-2018 03:27 AM

I just was reading this story on the irish paper and thought it went well with the theme.

https://www.independent.ie/irish-new...-36707438.html

Anyways I better start doing some work :)

MyLittleHorsie 03-15-2018 03:32 AM

In and thankful for my 20th sober weekend in a row. I think this calls for cake :)

I like the concept of no one is an island or alone.

STDragon 03-15-2018 04:02 AM

Thanks Gilmer, when I read your post I think about how I self isolated and felt I had to do it alone - quit drinking that is - when I should have been reaching out, I was instead berating myself for not being strong enough. This only served to lengthen my time in misery and delay the outcome I was reaching for.

Komplex 03-15-2018 04:31 AM

I’m in! Thanks Gilmer

Nonsensical 03-15-2018 05:31 AM


Originally Posted by MyLittleHorsie (Post 6823334)
In and thankful for my 20th sober weekend in a row. I think this calls for cake :)

And a parade. :)
:You_Rock_:funjump::chior:flow: :slider3: :coaster

Hawkeye13 03-15-2018 05:44 AM

Thanks Gilmir--John Donne always draws me out of the woodwork
I'm also in :)

Good to see you MB and other friends.
I noticed LBrain posting some fun stuff last week.
Hope he comes back to do it again this week as well (hint hint LB)

Congrats MLH--bring on the cake and ice cream . . .

Gilmer 03-15-2018 06:46 AM

Good morning, everyone!

Congratulations, MyLittleHorsie!

Good to see you back, MB! :wavey:

lessgravity 03-15-2018 07:07 AM

Nice one. Nothing like some Donne to get the weekend started right.

Sober here as well.

Have a Soul Cycle class scheduled for Sat morning - my bro-in-law's bday present, man. Should get the weekend moving.

Want to plan something fun with my son for Saturday.

Good work everyone. Happy to be here with you.

biminiblue 03-15-2018 07:15 AM

https://media.serious.io/475bbaabd32103a8/serious.gif

One of my favorite Jimmy Buffet songs.



venuscat 03-15-2018 07:18 AM

Oh my gosh Gilmer love, what a magnificent post. I love John Donne and now I have shivers. Thank you. :hug:

You are a beautiful human being.... ♥♥


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