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Jake14 02-13-2018 06:40 PM

Stopped drinking
 
I gave up drinking 2 days ago. My wife told me a week prior she loved me but was not in love anymore. So I proceed to get drunk and yell at her. I love this women with all my heart we have three beautiful kids together. She asked me several times to stop but I just kept saying I will don’t worry. I lost my father 3 years ago at a young age and hit me hard and now I have hurt my family. I hope one day the all forgive me for the pain I have caused. I am going full force at this for myself and for them.

lessgravity 02-13-2018 06:43 PM

Jake - welcome. This place is full of people and wisdom and knowledge.

Do you have a plan?

Jake14 02-13-2018 06:54 PM

I meet with a lady next Tuesday. I have been keeping my self busy with work, working out and spending what little time I have with my kids I started a calendar. She is letting me have the kids for three days so they will keep me busy. I figured until I meet the lady I would seek out others who have had or have the same problem

Dee74 02-13-2018 07:37 PM

Welcome Jake :)

Many of us have had hard childhoods and we've triumphed over that and stayed sober - I really believe you can too :)

D

least 02-13-2018 07:49 PM

Welcome to the family. :) I hope our support can help you get sober for good. :hug:

DontRemember 02-13-2018 07:56 PM

Welcome to SR,buddy. Number 1 thing needs to be your sobriety for yourself and your children. The wife thing comes in third,if at all to be blunt. A lot of support on all fronts here,man.

SoberLeigh 02-13-2018 09:16 PM

Welcome to SR, Jake; very glad that you have joined us.

Stay close. We care.

Jake14 02-14-2018 08:43 AM

Thank you all I will keep you guys updated day 3 is going well.


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