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Old 01-19-2018, 01:43 AM
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Originally Posted by MindfulMan View Post
Hadn't really thought of it this way.

Retaining a dull unfulfilling underpaying job, industry or career is not functional.

It's settling.

It isn't even about money, it's about wanting to get up in the morning. Drinking and using definitely makes it just bearable enough so that you stay there instead of moving on to something more fulfilling.
This is what I was doing. My ambition was completely eroded and I settled into complacency. For the past two years since I got sober I've been making up for that.
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Old 01-19-2018, 03:20 AM
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Originally Posted by TheRestisMine View Post
For me I managed to get from 12 yrs to 35 and achieved a good amount of success. I graduated high school and college (bachelors in Architecture), I am married with 3 (soon to be 4) beautiful children. I have worked my way into a managerial role within Government.

Still I look back and realize that I was a functioning alcoholic only because I have a knack for certain things; I was getting by mostly on God given ability. Had I really invested myself and put my best foot forward there's no telling where I'd be right now.

That being said I am putting my best foot forward and looking ahead to great success in the future.

Congrats on the 17 days! Keep it up!
Wow, this really hit home with me. Thank you.
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