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Old 12-23-2017, 02:20 PM
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First year sober and I will be alone. Any tricks or tips I can use to not feel as lonely? I feel this might be a trigger for me. Anyone else here going to be around?
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Old 12-23-2017, 02:23 PM
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Aww . I can understand why it can potentially be a trigger for you. What do you enjoy outside alcohol? Perhaps you can indulge yourself with a hobby during Christmas Day.
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Hi FallingStars 🌟

What about volunteering on Christmas day at a homeless shelter/soup kitchen...helping others may help you at this time x
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I like working out at the health club but they will be closed... maybe I'll take in a movie... Thanks
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First year sober and I will be alone. Any tricks or tips I can use to not feel as lonely? I feel this might be a trigger for me. Anyone else here going to be around?
Think of sobriety as a gift to yourself. If that's not possible, "play it out", as people say. Think how much worse you'll feel when you wake up having passed out (tired, hung over, and perhaps never living to see another day 1.)
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Old 12-23-2017, 02:29 PM
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Hi FallingStars 🌟

What about volunteering on Christmas day at a homeless shelter/soup kitchen...helping others may help you at this time x
I called around and they are all "full" - guess others had the same idea! Thanks
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I like working out at the health club but they will be closed... maybe I'll take in a movie... Thanks
I'm only on Day 3, but binge-watching some TV series has helped me a lot.
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I'm only on Day 3, but binge-watching some TV series has helped me a lot.
That's a good idea TW! Many TV shows to catch up on...
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I definitely agree that you should indulge in something else that you like...my plan is to binge watch tv shows as well!...congratulations on coming up on a year I want that in my life
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You can get there Toughroad... there are so many personal stories here that attest to that fact. Happy holidays and happy binging
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First year sober and I will be alone. Any tricks or tips I can use to not feel as lonely? I feel this might be a trigger for me. Anyone else here going to be around?
I will be around for part of the day.

Stay close.

You can do this.
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First year sober and I will be alone. Any tricks or tips I can use to not feel as lonely? I feel this might be a trigger for me. Anyone else here going to be around?
Watch a holiday movie and come hang out with us here.
I'll probably stop in to the forums a few times.
That's one of the great things about this site. As it's worldwide, there's always somebody here.
Feel free to friend me,FallingStars.
And Merry Christmas.
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Thank you all...you are so very kind. Nice group of people.
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Thank you all...you are so very kind. Nice group of people.
Onward, together!!! ❤️
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So glad you joined us FallingStars. Almost one year sober is definitely something to celebrate. The holidays can be tough, and you are smart to put a plan in place. If you can get out for a walk in the morning, that will help you start the day off on a positive note. Get some of your favorite foods, maybe a day of appetizers, or a day with your very favorite meal, and binge watch your very favorite shows, or movies.

Check in here as much as you need, there is usually someone around.

You can do this!!
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So glad you joined us FallingStars. Almost one year sober is definitely something to celebrate. The holidays can be tough, and you are smart to put a plan in place. If you can get out for a walk in the morning, that will help you start the day off on a positive note. Get some of your favorite foods, maybe a day of appetizers, or a day with your very favorite meal, and binge watch your very favorite shows, or movies.

Check in here as much as you need, there is usually someone around.

You can do this!!
Thank you very much
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FallingStars, I will be checking in, for sure. I'm glad that you posted and are preparing yourself.
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I'll definitely be checking in. Going to see family but iPad travelling with us!
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