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Old 12-21-2017, 08:08 PM
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Hey dee i tried to pm you i couldn't it i fail man i don't know what to do
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Old 12-21-2017, 08:11 PM
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Hi Healthyandsober ~ hugs love.
Maybe try again? The PM should go through....

And if you need anything that any of us can help you with....we will absolutely help. s
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Old 12-21-2017, 08:13 PM
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There should be no problem with PMs HAS
whats going on?

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Old 12-21-2017, 08:53 PM
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i fail i am drinking
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Old 12-21-2017, 08:54 PM
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i throw away 58 days
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Old 12-21-2017, 08:56 PM
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i fail you guys
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Old 12-21-2017, 09:05 PM
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i tried to reach you i didn't do it properly is not your fault i was determined to drink I'm so sorry
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Old 12-21-2017, 09:09 PM
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i am throwing up and I'm suicidal again i just don't want to live anymore
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Old 12-21-2017, 09:12 PM
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i just can't drink anymore alcohol mess me up i just want to jump in front of a train and get it over with
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Old 12-21-2017, 09:53 PM
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Honey.....please don't do anything to harm yourself.
You did not fail....you can stop drinking right now love.
Lots of us have relapses and we just keep trying....you can too. ♥
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Old 12-21-2017, 10:21 PM
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Originally Posted by Healthyandsober View Post
i am throwing up and I'm suicidal again i just don't want to live anymore
Healthyandsober, please call this hotline if you're feeling suicidal.

Lifeline 1-800-273-8255

OR

24-Hour Crisis Hotline

Samaritans 24-Hour Crisis Hotline (212) 673-3000

Just reach out ... they can help.
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Old 12-21-2017, 10:30 PM
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I'm sorry you're drinking HAS .

You've shown you can be sober tho

I really believe you're happier that way- or at least your posts seem to show that.

I hope you'll call someone if you feel like you're in danger.

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Old 12-21-2017, 11:34 PM
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We are all here for you Healthyandsober - you haven't thrown away 58 days, the experience you learned from them, is still there. I also know you won't believe that because neither did I last year
It's a tough time of the year from a lot of people but you've done it before and you can do it again.
I never in my wildest dreams, thought I'd be sitting here with 11 months notched up and I doubt anyone else did on SR as I'd slipped that many times, but it's very doable and I just know you can do it
Be kind to yourself - lots of water and just try and think what you'd say to your best friend in the same situation - because your real best friend is looking back at you from the mirror. She also has more strength than you think, because she's reaching out and posting. Well done for that
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Old 12-22-2017, 01:48 AM
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NO WAY is your 58 days wasted! Whether you know it or not, you built up a lot of “sober muscles” in that time, and you’ve just learned for sure that you don’t want to go on drinking!

Please talk to someone on the phone and get back on the wagon.

When you look at your life and see only misery, you’re not looking far enough into the future. You’ve got to take the long view.

When you’re sober, you’re happier, steadier, and able to think better.

Right now you can’t see beyond January and this current job—but life will continue. Refuse to give in to despair and set your eyes on the spring and summer.

Stop drinking now and make some positive plans for the upcoming months.

They don’t have to be big or cost a lot of money—just small pleasures.

Get your eyes off of this January and onto the near (and far) future. Stop drinking now, and you have a great chance to make one!
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Old 12-22-2017, 03:08 AM
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(((H&S))) I posted in your thread but just wanted to send more hugs....glad you came here ~ see, you're not giving up! Have you tried calling those hotlines? Sometimes just having someone to talk to helps a lot. I did that once....talked the poor guy's ear off for probably an hour....
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Old 12-22-2017, 03:10 AM
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Sorry I'm late ~ Thanks for the new thread, Hawkeye! I'm gonna need to stick close to SR this weekend.....this is your warning everyone! Lol
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Old 12-22-2017, 05:58 AM
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HaS, the 58 days have showed you can do this--they aren't wasted.

Like I said on your other thread, stop now, and break the pattern.
You can reset and have a sober Christmas.

Why let your azzhole boss control your emotions this way?
Kick her to the curb and dump the booze.
We are here for you, and we care
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Sorry I'm late ~ Thanks for the new thread, Hawkeye! I'm gonna need to stick close to SR this weekend.....this is your warning everyone! Lol
Yep, with you on that one - I'm bringing my tent to SR
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I am in!

I hope you are feeling better HealthyandSober. Please check in when you can.


I reached out to someone and had some major rejection! I had a cry about it and now I am done feeling sorry for myself. I am going to have a good weekend. At least my heart isn't hard right?

I hope everyone has a nice Christmas. Stay close to SR and this thread if you need too!! It will help a lot.
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Old 12-22-2017, 06:36 AM
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We are all here for you Healthyandsober - you haven't thrown away 58 days, the experience you learned from them, is still there. I also know you won't believe that because neither did I last year
It's a tough time of the year from a lot of people but you've done it before and you can do it again.
I never in my wildest dreams, thought I'd be sitting here with 11 months notched up and I doubt anyone else did on SR as I'd slipped that many times, but it's very doable and I just know you can do it
Be kind to yourself - lots of water and just try and think what you'd say to your best friend in the same situation - because your real best friend is looking back at you from the mirror. She also has more strength than you think, because she's reaching out and posting. Well done for that
Bumping this amazing post ♥♥♥♥
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