Kimerlea

Hi, my boyfriend and I are both in recovery, I am looking for guidance because my boyfriend is having major surgery in two days. He's drug of choice is not mine, but I have never none him in active addiction, so I do not know exactly what to look for. I will be holding his medicine after the surgery, but I am scared that he might use my ignorance to his drug of choice and not knowing how much pain he will be in as a way to get more. I meet with my Spencer tomorrow to set up safe guards for me and hopefully him as well. I have never been in this position and a scared that I could possibly lose the man I love to his addiction . Just hoping to get some constructive feed back. Please and thank you. Kim

Dee74

Hi kimerlea

None of us know your bf as well as you do...do you have any real concrete grounds for fearing a relapse from your bf or it is just a general fear based on his (and your) past history?

D

Kimerlea

Yes, he relapsed after 14 years, after having his shoulder operated on, prior to us getting together. I guess I was hoping maybe someone else had some past experience with a similar situation.

Dee74

I'm sure others will

D