I just read mindfulman's post. I agree wholeheartedly that people, especially strangers who learn that you are sober say congratulations. I am still amazed by that, people I've never met say "congratulations" when they learned I quit drinking.

Same here. I just had a chick I'm talking to tell me that yesterday, when I let her know I don't drink anymore. She's a non drinker as well.

Maybe so YCDT. Though at some point after you quit, you might have to get accustomed to going, because so many places serve alcohol now.

I quit a year and a half ago and I definitely remember feeling awkward at my favorite drinking restaurants. But I distracted myself by ordering something really good and decadent just for the heck of it. And then I'd look at their drink menu because lots of restaurants like Applebees and Olive Garden have really good, exotic n/a drinks. And sometimes I like a sprite with sugar (gasp). I eat healthier now BTW, that was just to help me get through.

But I guess for now it would be good to avoid them. Try going to places like Panera...ummmm...Cracker Barrel? Buffet type places...i am glad I am used to it now OP. But it took a while.

Last night we were waiting at the bar at a very crowded restaurant and I suddenly found myself literally surrounded by people drinking. Completely boxed in. I did not like that. It's important to always be on your toes and not get too complacent.

"It's always important to be on your toes and not get too complacent."

The Big Book expressly addresses this. To paraphrase, it says we will no longer fear or be uncomfortable around alcohol, as our obsession has been removed - as long as we remain in spiritual fitness. In other words- what HopeandFaith said, in "regular language." The BB further says that when we have disturbing situations arise we will know how to handle them, even though they used to baffle us. (or we would drink)

This has been true IME and it is absolutely freeing.