Kquiroz

I want to let him know clear where i stand but i am so scare he just dont care.
How I tell him if he doesn't do something about his drinking I will leave him.

Ginalee

Say what you mean. Mean what you say. But don't say it mean. I hope that helps and i hope he believes that you mean it. Alcoholic behavior is a very very complex kind of crazy to watch it play out. And it seems like you're fed up. I'm so sorry for what you're going through cause if you're ready to issue that ultimatum his behavior must be unacceptable. This is the right place to be. There's so much love and experience here. I'm new here too. But you will get some helpful ways to handle this. Don't worry you're not alone.

Kquiroz

Thanks it would hurt to lose him but It will be more hurtful if I lose my self trying to fix him. I am just so not ready to go thru this painful process but I don't want to waste any more time either.
I feel so hurt and disappointed.

Maudcat

Hi, Kquiroz.
Welcome to SR.
There is a lot of activity and experience on the Friends and Famly of Alcoholics forum.
Buzz on over and have a read.
Peace.