Notices

Day 70, life is up & down

Thread Tools
 
Old 11-05-2017, 10:04 AM
  # 1 (permalink)  
Member
Thread Starter
 
Join Date: Sep 2017
Location: Leduc, Ab
Posts: 758
Day 70, life is up & down

Day 70..... Still going strong. Even though life is still throwing crap at me, I feel pretty darn happy to be sober. I'm actually dealing with life's problems head on instead of hiding with the bottle. It's a bit overwhelming at times, seems like every week a new problem arises and my anxiety flares up. It's now where near as bad as it was even a month ago.
Last night my neighbor caught me of guard as I was pulling into my driveway, I roll down my window and he starts into me that my dog is barking to much. I felt like I was caught off guard as I had the kids in the back seat and didn't really know how to respond. I just said "okay I'll deal with it. I stewed about it all evening thinking he could have at least waited till we were parked and the kids were in the house. So after giving it some thought, I'm going to knock on his door and make a apology and explain how I felt, and let him know how I'm going to try and deal with it. Don't want this to turn into a resentment.
Ahh life, its way better sober but still throws those curve balls.
Glad to be sober, each and every day I grow stronger.
Have a good day everyone
Hats is offline  
Old 11-05-2017, 03:37 PM
  # 2 (permalink)  
Administrator
 
Anna's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2003
Location: Dancing in the Light
Posts: 61,504
Congratulations on Day 70, Hats! And, your plan to speak calmly with your neighbour sounds good. Hopefully you can work out the dog issue.
Anna is online now  
Old 11-05-2017, 03:46 PM
  # 3 (permalink)  
Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2017
Posts: 116
Hats! 70 Days is so so good. You thought through a really good way to handle the neighbor. It is good talking to you in the chat when I see you too!
MelSober is offline  
Old 11-05-2017, 03:58 PM
  # 4 (permalink)  
Hillbilly Girl
 
MariahGayle's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2013
Location: In my Garden
Posts: 3,953
Congratulations on 70 days Hats & for “dealing” with life as it comes!
MariahGayle is offline  
Old 11-05-2017, 04:09 PM
  # 5 (permalink)  
Member
 
BAC015's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2015
Location: Planet Earth
Posts: 26
Congratulations, I'm still working on getting clean myself after all I have been through. It alot harder than I thought, but I love challenges - so bring in on!
BAC015 is offline  
Old 11-05-2017, 04:37 PM
  # 6 (permalink)  
Administrator
 
Dee74's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Australia
Posts: 211,439
Hope you got some closure with the neighbour.
Congrats on day 70 Hats

D
Dee74 is offline  
Old 11-05-2017, 04:49 PM
  # 7 (permalink)  
Member
 
DreamCatcher17's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2017
Location: Minnesota, USA
Posts: 1,468
Way to go hats!!!!
DreamCatcher17 is offline  
Old 11-05-2017, 05:57 PM
  # 8 (permalink)  
Member
Thread Starter
 
Join Date: Sep 2017
Location: Leduc, Ab
Posts: 758
Originally Posted by Dee74 View Post
Hope you got some closure with the neighbour.
Congrats on day 70 Hats

D
Thanks Dee,
I did get some closure, we had a good discussion and everything went well.
Hats is offline  
Old 11-05-2017, 06:13 PM
  # 9 (permalink)  
Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2017
Location: Singapore
Posts: 190
That's great, Hats. Things like that just reinforce the idea that we are doing exactly the right thing by being sober. I love it when I calmly deal with something that would have had me in an anxious spin when I was drinking.
Well done on the 70 days, too. We are around the same point. 10 weeks felt significant for me somehow.
Downthepath is offline  

Currently Active Users Viewing this Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off





All times are GMT -7. The time now is 11:48 PM.