2nd time!
 

I had written all this and then clicked on the wrong button and disappeared so doing from memory!!

For all those feeling a bit 'blase' - don't! I have done this so many times and it is wrong! Look to why you feel the need to be blase? And then look for the truth!

I have been a member since Super Bowl night 2014. Nope, not under this account .... drink made me forget original account.

Whatever the 'wine/beer-witch' tells you, ignore it. Question it. What is more important to you? Is it your child? If so, you need to SHOW it. Don't just say it and drink - SHOW it !!

I agree, it is important to go "all-in" and give this every effort. Being blasé or just deciding to stop without putting a solid plan of action into place rarely leads to success. Thank you for this post!