Weekender Thread 3-6 November 2017 Welcome to the Weekender thread: a source of support and encouragement for everybody across this coming weekend. If anyone ever wants to write a theme post for any given weekend just let me know by PM beforehand :) D |
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Thanks Dee! :wave: |
Thanks Dee! congrats on shotgun petals. Wednesday still but I'm so ready for the weekend;:thanks |
Yes, I thought it was Thursday...one of those weeks :lmao D |
We have a bank holiday today, so I totally forgot for a moment that it wasn't the weekend :D |
no worries i wish it were Thursday too. It is good this thread runs all week it is a good one. thank you Dee:lmao |
Thanks, Dee! I’m in. |
I'm in--thanks for the thread Dee |
Oops! I didn't see there was a new thread! I was posting on the old one! Oh well...I will spare you all and just say...good morning, I am IN! |
But... Well, okay. Friday can't get here too soon I guess. https://media.giphy.com/media/blPpTGDhn6hEI/giphy.gif |
Thank you Dee. I am in. I am a bit worried about the weekend.....my AV has been louder than usual this past week. Going to stay close to SR. Have been playing the tape forward but the better I have started feeling, the more the AV has asserted itself. Going to try and make a specific plan for this weekend to stay sober. |
Be careful Darkling...that is exactly how it goes at first. Feeling good does not make staying sober easier, after the first blush. On the contrary. Is there someone in your face-to-face life you can rehearse that plan with? Gives a plan flesh on the bones, I find. I have to tell a trick I have developed: I have to seize a moment when I am clear enough and content with sober enough to share my specific plan with someone. If I wait til my partner gets home, or wait for anything, really, I might have gotten all secretive by that time about my desire to drink. Instead, when I just start to dwell on something stupid, I literally force myself to text out to my partner my plans for the event or the day or later tonight...whatever is starting to get to me. Just a couple of bullets. It pulls me up short. My partner would not try to enforce a plan or bug me about it. So for me, it is a way of mentally checking myself. |
Originally Posted by BixBees505
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Be careful Darkling...that is exactly how it goes at first. Feeling good does not make staying sober easier, after the first blush. On the contrary. Is there someone in your face-to-face life you can rehearse that plan with? Gives a plan flesh on the bones, I find. I have to tell a trick I have developed: I have to seize a moment when I am clear enough and content with sober enough to share my specific plan with someone. If I wait til my partner gets home, or wait for anything, really, I might have gotten all secretive by that time about my desire to drink. Instead, when I just start to dwell on something stupid, I literally force myself to text out to my partner my plans for the event or the day or later tonight...whatever is starting to get to me. Just a couple of bullets. It pulls me up short. My partner would not try to enforce a plan or bug me about it. So for me, it is a way of mentally checking myself. Its 138 days today. Finally I feel normal. The health anxiety and depression have gone. I don't want to mess this up. I know if I do, it is a choice I am making with the full facts of what will happen. Thank you Bix for your advice and support. |
1 Attachment(s) In! I was momentarily confused. 138 days is excellent DarklingSong. Ignore that AV. |
I'll just say....Darkling. . . you're never cured. I picked up after 18 years. I drank a bit normally for a while. Until all Hell broke loose in my life and I just had to drink more. To cope, you know. Forget. Celebrate. Mourn. Shut up the brain. Seven years later I put it down again. I had gotten to nearly the same place as the first time I quit. This time I hadn't really suffered any external consequences, but my inner turmoil was brutal. Not gonna try that little vortex again. |
Thanks BiminiBlue. You are 100% right. I know it. I must find a way to do this. |
I'm in, thanks Dee :) Darkling - I'll second what Bimini said, I picked after six years & took eight more to put it down again Bimini - just looking at that cat is making me paranoid! |
Good evening. Just finishing work, kinda late, and going to rummage for food. Hope everyone is doing well. |
Next week I will have two days off in a row ~ Thurs & Friday; just speaking up early....there's been very little struggle lately (thank goodness) & that's the perfect opportunity for the AV to pounce....I need to stay close! :vd |
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