Healthy&sober former sober&healthy 90 meetings in 90 days accountability thread
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Congrats on 8 days!!
Yeah it's really hard at first and 90 in 90 is a great way to get yourself away from the problem and into a solution. If you see someone you admire in a meeting, who has some sobriety under their belt, you might consider asking them to sponsor you.
You can do this!
As for drinking at the office it might be normal where you work but trust me it's not so normal in general.
Yeah it's really hard at first and 90 in 90 is a great way to get yourself away from the problem and into a solution. If you see someone you admire in a meeting, who has some sobriety under their belt, you might consider asking them to sponsor you.
You can do this!
As for drinking at the office it might be normal where you work but trust me it's not so normal in general.
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Thank you guys!
I just got back from meeting number 3, it was about the serenity prayer.
I need to plan these meetings better today i almost did not go because i was working late but i wanted to come here and repot back so i went:group hug:
I am feeling a bit sad its hard i am mourning alcohol so insane. i keep thinking that if i had moderate and behave myself i could be out having fun(drinking) instead of going to these meetings.
oh well the ship has sailed right. I know i can never drink again i should have stop years ago.
thank you for reading my thread.
Thank you wehav2day for the perpestive not all offices will be like this one maybe i will get a better job in the future once i get myself some sober time.
I just got back from meeting number 3, it was about the serenity prayer.
I need to plan these meetings better today i almost did not go because i was working late but i wanted to come here and repot back so i went:group hug:
I am feeling a bit sad its hard i am mourning alcohol so insane. i keep thinking that if i had moderate and behave myself i could be out having fun(drinking) instead of going to these meetings.
oh well the ship has sailed right. I know i can never drink again i should have stop years ago.
thank you for reading my thread.
Thank you wehav2day for the perpestive not all offices will be like this one maybe i will get a better job in the future once i get myself some sober time.
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Booze makes such a disrespectful, abusive love interest, doesnt it? It doesnt mourn for us at all. 
Delighted to see your report! Rooting for you all the way!
Delighted to see your report! Rooting for you all the way!
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Originally Posted by Healthyandsober 
Thank you guys!
I just got back from meeting number 3, it was about the serenity prayer.
I need to plan these meetings better today i almost did not go because i was working late but i wanted to come here and report back so i went:group hug:
I just got back from meeting number 3, it was about the serenity prayer.
I need to plan these meetings better today i almost did not go because i was working late but i wanted to come here and report back so i went:group hug:
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Day 10 here and meeting 4. Terminal uniqueness was the theme.
I don't feel very unique I just learned early on how to make myself feel better or enjoy myself by drinking.
I had a bad day my meeting with my manager as usual was awful I think I hate this woman and I think she is an idiot sorry guys I'm kind of sad and angry.
I think I will lose my job she basically told me if I don't make my goal for the next to months I'm out.
I feel like a failure but I didn't drink despise people in my office drinking again at 4 o'clock. Ahh where I'm going from here?
I have a 24 hours chip I am going to keep it in bag to remain me that this is the right thing for me no matter what happen in my life. 🤗
I don't feel very unique I just learned early on how to make myself feel better or enjoy myself by drinking.
I had a bad day my meeting with my manager as usual was awful I think I hate this woman and I think she is an idiot sorry guys I'm kind of sad and angry.
I think I will lose my job she basically told me if I don't make my goal for the next to months I'm out.
I feel like a failure but I didn't drink despise people in my office drinking again at 4 o'clock. Ahh where I'm going from here?
I have a 24 hours chip I am going to keep it in bag to remain me that this is the right thing for me no matter what happen in my life. 🤗
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They say if you want to drink, to put that chip under your tongue. When it melts, you can drink.
The ones we have here are metal.
I think if you lose your job, there will be a better one with a manager who you may like. A fresh start is not always a bad thing. God is in control, H&S. It will work out!
Well done on double digits.
The ones we have here are metal.
I think if you lose your job, there will be a better one with a manager who you may like. A fresh start is not always a bad thing. God is in control, H&S. It will work out!
Well done on double digits.
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Hi H&S. Fellow dragon sign here
I also work in an office where the drinking culture is pretty firmly rooted. I've found it best to be uncompromising and unapologetic. Hold strong, it can be done.
I also work in an office where the drinking culture is pretty firmly rooted. I've found it best to be uncompromising and unapologetic. Hold strong, it can be done.
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Thank you biminiblue and purplsrks,
I hope all workout at the end. My doctor told me it was better if i look for another job because 1 there was a lot of drinking in this job and 2 it was making me miserable so i guess i have to trust God on this one
yes they said that about the chip when they gave it to me and i thought it was a job LOL
I hope all workout at the end. My doctor told me it was better if i look for another job because 1 there was a lot of drinking in this job and 2 it was making me miserable so i guess i have to trust God on this one
yes they said that about the chip when they gave it to me and i thought it was a job LOL
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Thank you for the advice rascalwhiteoak, i tend to feel i need to apologize and even have one glass so people see I'm normal. very dangerous that thinking.
for now on I'm uncompromising and unapologetic
Thank you Dragon, i just feel i won't be one of these people who get promoted and are amazing at their job life finances once they quit. i guess is okay i really just want some peace i miss drinking but man i have lived my life in a crisis mode at all times and i am tired of cleaning messes feeling ashamed hating myself and even feeling i would be better off if all was over, so i want to be unapologetic and uncompromising regarding my sobriety.
for now on I'm uncompromising and unapologetic
Thank you Dragon, i just feel i won't be one of these people who get promoted and are amazing at their job life finances once they quit. i guess is okay i really just want some peace i miss drinking but man i have lived my life in a crisis mode at all times and i am tired of cleaning messes feeling ashamed hating myself and even feeling i would be better off if all was over, so i want to be unapologetic and uncompromising regarding my sobriety.
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