Why can’t it be easy
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Why can’t it be easy
I guess nothing worth anything is very easy, but why can’t I just not drink? I really do want to quit, but can’t seem to get through a day without alcohol. I know it’s a mind thing for me. If I could just get 24 hours under my belt, I’m sure I could keep going.
I reached out to my sponsor this morning after ignoring her text on Friday. I’m going to attend an AA meeting tonight. I wish I could go to one at noon, but I can’t. I must surround myself with a good support system so I don’t keep up this vicious cycle!!!
I reached out to my sponsor this morning after ignoring her text on Friday. I’m going to attend an AA meeting tonight. I wish I could go to one at noon, but I can’t. I must surround myself with a good support system so I don’t keep up this vicious cycle!!!
Good for you on reaching out and getting to a meeting.
Its that first drink that we need to stay away from otherwise the cycle never ends.
You say "If I could just get 24 hours under my belt, I'm sure I could keep going"
So your first priority then is getting that first 24 hours by any means necessary.
Meetings, using this site, hell take it minute to minute if you must but get through that 24 hours and be proud of yourself for it.
It is tough, very tough but if your anything like me, I had hangovers or days of madness after a bender which lasted longer than 24 hours and I was getting nothing positive from that.
Keep strong
Its that first drink that we need to stay away from otherwise the cycle never ends.
You say "If I could just get 24 hours under my belt, I'm sure I could keep going"
So your first priority then is getting that first 24 hours by any means necessary.
Meetings, using this site, hell take it minute to minute if you must but get through that 24 hours and be proud of yourself for it.
It is tough, very tough but if your anything like me, I had hangovers or days of madness after a bender which lasted longer than 24 hours and I was getting nothing positive from that.
Keep strong
and if necessary 1 minute. then the next,then the next.
and if necessary 1 second. then the next, then the next.
worked for me.
well, that, AA meetings, reading the big book, and working the program.
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instead of aiming for 24 hours, why not narrow that down to 1 hour? then the next,then the next.
and if necessary 1 minute. then the next,then the next.
and if necessary 1 second. then the next, then the next.
worked for me.
well, that, AA meetings, reading the big book, and working the program.
and if necessary 1 minute. then the next,then the next.
and if necessary 1 second. then the next, then the next.
worked for me.
well, that, AA meetings, reading the big book, and working the program.
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I definitely need to do this. I got a ton of phone numbers at the last meeting I went to and a sponsor. I have no excuse for not calling someone before picking up a drink. Thank you for reminding me of this.
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I really feel for you Sinderos, I really do. But give yourself credit for the progress you've made. You have a sponsor, phone numbers and you're attending meetings. It's clear to me that you really want to quit drinking. The hard part is taking advantage of all these great resources. Any major change in life is very hard and requires a lot of determination. I think that 24 hours is coming soon for you as long as you stay the course and don't give up. I think you are going to end up being one of the many success stories on SR. John
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It's the ending of a long term relationship. That's never easy. You miss that person/thing(booze),but eventually you have enough and have to go no contact at all costs to protect yourself and sanity. Time to go NC with the booze. Get to a meeting asap and go as often as you can for support. Of course here too. Hang in there.
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I never thought of it like that. You are absolutely right though. It is the end of a long term relationship. Thinking of it in this respect is definitely going to help me deal with getting sober and staying that way. Thank you for your comment!!!
You can retrain your brain. We all can. It takes time, but you can.
Hi Sinderos
Believe me you will get to a point where you prefer not to drink...this is just the last gasp from the AV - you have It on the ropes and It's scared
don't leave before the miracle happens, right?
D
Believe me you will get to a point where you prefer not to drink...this is just the last gasp from the AV - you have It on the ropes and It's scared
don't leave before the miracle happens, right?
D
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You can do it!
Sinderos-
The fact that you are going to an AA meeting and have a sponsor, plus posting on SR, you're already on the right track. You have a plan and now comes the "hard" part, go to the meeting, work on the steps with your sponsor. Before you know it, you're posting your 1, 30, 60, 90, 120+ days of sobriety.
You got this!
The fact that you are going to an AA meeting and have a sponsor, plus posting on SR, you're already on the right track. You have a plan and now comes the "hard" part, go to the meeting, work on the steps with your sponsor. Before you know it, you're posting your 1, 30, 60, 90, 120+ days of sobriety.
You got this!
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