Am I White Knuckling it?
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Am I White Knuckling it?
Hello,
I recently celebrated 11 months clean and sober. In this past year, I went back to school, got a new career, got my family back and some trust and dignity within myself back.
I attend AA but still feel like I'm hanging on for dear life in sobriety even though all these positive things are the result of my sobriety. I still feel depressed and struggle with a lot of anxiety. I am wondering if I am white knuckling it and if I am, how do I stop? I don't really know what to do. Any help is appreciated.
I recently celebrated 11 months clean and sober. In this past year, I went back to school, got a new career, got my family back and some trust and dignity within myself back.
I attend AA but still feel like I'm hanging on for dear life in sobriety even though all these positive things are the result of my sobriety. I still feel depressed and struggle with a lot of anxiety. I am wondering if I am white knuckling it and if I am, how do I stop? I don't really know what to do. Any help is appreciated.
Hi brianm, I suffered with anxieties when I stopped but to be honest, they were there before and the booze just masked them away. I had to learn to live sober and I actually got put on mild anti depressants, which for me helped enormously.
Congratulations on 11 months sober!
Congratulations on 11 months sober!
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Hi, Anxiety is so common with addictions . For me I had problems with anxiety most of my adult life and alcohol tempoarily gave me relief . Now I am living life on lifes terms and working hard at accepting the term anxiety is the bodys natural defence mechanism gone out of whack and ( in my own words) needs to be reset . If I understand there is no disease , no mental illness( had labwork done and thorough checkover) and that anxiety symptoms are caused by my own thinking flooding my body with adrenalin and other chemicals in order to fight or flee while there is no need( fear where tehre is nothing to fear) I am on the way to calmness . This is what I am being taught and much much more and for me its working .
A visit to your doc is a great idea .
For me tablets never worked but slowly I am improving by UNDERSTANDING how exccess anxiety is caused .
Wishing you well.
A visit to your doc is a great idea .
For me tablets never worked but slowly I am improving by UNDERSTANDING how exccess anxiety is caused .
Wishing you well.
Cognitive therapy and antidepressants has been working for me. AA meetings for community and fellowship, no sponsor or step work yet, perhaps never, but for some it does help with anxiety. Also where there's anxiety there is often depression. Many if not most addicts have some underlying mood disorders and/or unresolved anxiety that is harshly revealed when we are no longer masking them with our DOCs.
Psychodynamic therapy can be very useful, particularly following a round of addiction focused cognitive therapy. Yoga, mindfulness and meditation practices can be hugely helpful against anxiety, and good diet and exercise contributes as well.
You are far from alone. I'd say explore all options and see what works for you.
Psychodynamic therapy can be very useful, particularly following a round of addiction focused cognitive therapy. Yoga, mindfulness and meditation practices can be hugely helpful against anxiety, and good diet and exercise contributes as well.
You are far from alone. I'd say explore all options and see what works for you.
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Doctor care, after complete commitment to AA has worked for me. Anxiety was an underlying/lifelong thing for me, too, so meds for that....but the key was truly committing to AA, working the steps, having a great sponsor, building a sober network, yep all of that, just like folks say!
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Our brains are such complex organs, sometimes even after being sober we have underlying issues that need to be addressed. I have an underlying issue that I take medication for daily, it was the best decision of my life. Not saying that's the answer for you, but finding out the source of your anxiety and depression is a worthwhile endeavor.
I attend AA but still feel like I'm hanging on for dear life in sobriety even though all these positive things are the result of my sobriety. I still feel depressed and struggle with a lot of anxiety. I am wondering if I am white knuckling it and if I am, how do I stop? I don't really know what to do. Any help is appreciated.
Once out on the other side of the step work, "the problem has been removed" as it says in the big book. I can't remember the last time I white knuckled not drinking and I am so grateful for that.
going to meetings and not drinking dont treat alcoholism.
to stop whats going on could be as simple as getting into action with the steps.
if nothing changes then nothing changes
to stop whats going on could be as simple as getting into action with the steps.
if nothing changes then nothing changes
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