Moderation vs Harm Reduction methods vs quitting drinking programs
Do we want to get well? Are we willing to do what is necessary? The answer from a moderating point of view (in my case) was YES and YES. Until I took the first couple of drinks (pretty moderate!!) and then the eff-it button would be hit. So whether an alcoholic or problem drinker, seeking moderation is like howling for the moon.
What is this "most likely" business about? Interesting qualifier that leaves the door wide open to more drinking, whether alcoholic or not, wouldn't you say?
An alcoholic is essentially an alcohol addict, no different than a smoker who is addicted to nicotine, and no different than the dope fiend who is addicted to heroin. Like the smoker, the alcoholic certainly can drink, albeit likely at great risk to self and others.
The only difference is that the alcohol addict threatens society's eons old love affair with the bottle, by highlighting the fact that, while prohibition is not an option, perhaps alcohol is not so benign after all.
Ever wonder why the government requires that cigarette packs encourage quitting smoking entirely, but alcoholic beverages only suggest drinking responsibly? The disease concept of alcohol addiction protects vested interests.
Were there a disease of nicotinism to protect Big Tobacco, as the disease of alcoholism presently protects Big Liquor, cigarette packs would say 'smoke responsibly', and we would still see cigarette advertisements all over the airways. Perhaps one day, society will wise up and ban liquor ads as well.
Why, in your (Scientific and non-personal) opinion would someone let an intended 'normal' drink turn into the 'week long bender' other than not being able to control their drinking or make rational decisions about drinking once they had alcohol in them?
I'd also be interested to know your (scientific and non-personal) definition of an alcoholic.
I'd also be interested to know your (scientific and non-personal) definition of an alcoholic.
I tried moderation and can tell you that, even if you might succeed, doing it if you are a problem drinker is not enjoyable most of the time.
Trying to control your drinking by stopping after one or two but really wanting more is downright unpleasant and left me feeling very uncomfortable.
Non-alcoholics are able to decide "Tonight one drink was enough and I'm not having more" without much conscious effort and not feeling uncomfortable at all. But for by far the majority of us problem drinkers that is simply torture, if sustainable at all.
For most problem drinkers I think in the end abstinence just proves so much easier.
Trying to control your drinking by stopping after one or two but really wanting more is downright unpleasant and left me feeling very uncomfortable.
Non-alcoholics are able to decide "Tonight one drink was enough and I'm not having more" without much conscious effort and not feeling uncomfortable at all. But for by far the majority of us problem drinkers that is simply torture, if sustainable at all.
For most problem drinkers I think in the end abstinence just proves so much easier.
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