Just had my assessment
None of us ended up where we are in a day Chilled - anything worth changing is gonna take some time and effort and patience....
Some days you'll make great strides and some day little itty bitty steps, but you'll get there.
I think you have to right stuff to do it
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Some days you'll make great strides and some day little itty bitty steps, but you'll get there.
I think you have to right stuff to do it
D
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I know how you feel and I,m with you and can tell you that things do improve ,don,t give up .
Chilledice , I relate to your dilemma . Books by Claire Weekes are a great help for me. When I go through a bad spell ( as right now ) I dig her books and audio talks out . She teaches us to not fight panic but to accept it ,let it do as it wishes so as to stop what she calls second fear building up . Her material is a bit old now but still very good .
I know how you feel and I,m with you and can tell you that things do improve ,don,t give up .
I know how you feel and I,m with you and can tell you that things do improve ,don,t give up .
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Through what I have learned about panic / anxiety disorder it is the fear of fear that keeps that horrible feeling of impending doom alive . I know only too well what you are describing although I don't know the phobia you have . For me I also go down the spiritual route ( no specific religion ) . I too am seeking advice in a new thread as I just retired in march and I'm struggling mentally . To end in a humorous note I went shopping for clothes yesterday and came home with 3 pairs of socks as I couldn't bear to be among the sheer volume of thing to buy ,then there's the trying on part , no siree.
Through what I have learned about panic / anxiety disorder it is the fear of fear that keeps that horrible feeling of impending doom alive . I know only too well what you are describing although I don't know the phobia you have . For me I also go down the spiritual route ( no specific religion ) . I too am seeking advice in a new thread as I just retired in march and I'm struggling mentally . To end in a humorous note I went shopping for clothes yesterday and came home with 3 pairs of socks as I couldn't bear to be among the sheer volume of thing to buy ,then there's the trying on part , no siree.
Haha it's the damn changing rooms that used to bother me!
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at its best. Folks helping folks right here
on SR. Guiding, suggesting, caring, understanding,
communicating. Not leaving anyone of our
friends down, alone or by themselves.
Keep asking for what you need, where
to look or find the answers.
We're here for you friend.
at its best. Folks helping folks right here
on SR. Guiding, suggesting, caring, understanding,
communicating. Not leaving anyone of our
friends down, alone or by themselves.
Keep asking for what you need, where
to look or find the answers.
We're here for you friend.
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