hard time letting people go There are people I got rid of in my life as far as 8 years ago. And I still find myself missing them. I thought with time it would have all went away. But I guess it doesn't. Even if the person wasn't even that good for me. Sometimes I will cry and really miss the person. And I get bitter/resentful that I had to make that decision. I wish I didn't feel that way. I wish I could somehow just feel OK about it and not think about it. I don't have a lot of people in my life, so that probably plays a factor as well. |
I know it's painful to have to make a decision like that, Littlesongbird. When I removed a few people from my life in early recovery, I was surprised to find that new and healthy people appeared. Maybe you could try adding an activity to your life that might bring encourage new friendships. |
You've got a great opportunity to make some new friends now littlesongbird? why not give it a go? D |
Originally Posted by littlesongbird
(Post 6471537)
Sometimes I will cry and really miss the person. And I get bitter/resentful that I had to make that decision. resentments are our #1 offender ... ... they destroy more alcoholics than anything else :thanks |
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