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Old 04-01-2017, 09:02 AM
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Im seven days sober,,,,the nervous and anxiety has hit me hard...ill be having a pretty good day then bam!!!!! Please help!!!!
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Why are you feeling nervous?
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Im seven days sober,,,,the nervous and anxiety has hit me hard...ill be having a pretty good day then bam!!!!! Please help!!!!
I've dealt with Anxiety my whole life with and without alcoholism in the mix.

Do you exercise? 30 minutes of exercise will take the edge off, especially resistance training. Even just a few sets of push ups will release anxiety fighting endorphins into your sytem.

How is your diet? Ditch the boxed or packaged food for fresh fruits, vegetables, and unprepared meats if you haven't already. Not only will the nutrition help with anxiety, but cooking can be relaxing while also keeping your mind busy. Anxiety attacks when you give it an opportunity to manifest. For many people boredom leads to anxiety, so stay busy.

Also, if you have to see a doc ask for a short prescription of Ativan or Xanax. These drugs are habit forming so only take one if you need it. Most docs are smart enough to only give you a couple weeks worth, but if they offer more refuse it. Also don't let him/her talk you into an antidepressant class drug unless everything else has failed. They can be extremely difficult to get off of for some people, and they're not something you want to take unless you have to.
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Why are you feeling nervous?
maybe edgee,,,jittery is better than nervous!!!!
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I had a pretty big problem with that myself. Not sure if it'll work for you but I just stayed busy, I had a big piece of property I had neglected for awhile and just started working on it. Kept my mind occupied during the day and wore me out so I slept easier. I'm not one to deal with doctors much so that's just the route I took, I'm sure you can get something prescribed to help.
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Please remember - Do not offer any kind of medical advice.

If you talk to your dr about your anxiety, clearly the best plan is to follow his advice. And, if you are looking for advice on antidepressants, talking to your dr is the way to go.

I have generalized anxiety and there are many things I do. One thing is exercise. I try to not add stress to my life, so I say 'No' if I don't think I can manage one more commitment. Yoga, meditation and breathing exercises are also very helpful.
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I've dealt with Anxiety my whole life with and without alcoholism in the mix.

Do you exercise? 30 minutes of exercise will take the edge off, especially resistance training. Even just a few sets of push ups will release anxiety fighting endorphins into your sytem.

How is your diet? Ditch the boxed or packaged food for fresh fruits, vegetables, and unprepared meats if you haven't already. Not only will the nutrition help with anxiety, but cooking can be relaxing while also keeping your mind busy. Anxiety attacks when you give it an opportunity to manifest. For many people boredom leads to anxiety, so stay busy.

Also, if you have to see a doc ask for a short prescription of Ativan or Xanax. These drugs are habit forming so only take one if you need it. Most docs are smart enough to only give you a couple weeks worth, but if they offer more refuse it. Also don't let him/her talk you into an antidepressant class drug unless everything else has failed. They can be extremely difficult to get off of for some people, and they're not something you want to take unless you have to.
i have an appointment with my doctor the 14th,,,gonna go walking the dog this afternoon!!!!
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Please remember - Do not offer any kind of medical advice.

If you talk to your dr about your anxiety, clearly the best plan is to follow his advice. And, if you are looking for advice on antidepressants, talking to your dr is the way to go.

I have generalized anxiety and there are many things I do. One thing is exercise. I try to not add stress to my life, so I say 'No' if I don't think I can manage one more commitment. Yoga, meditation and breathing exercises are also very helpful.
i guess you could call me high strung,,,,,the alcoholic helped me calm down!!!! Now its hard almost impossible to calm down!!!
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will do,,,,thank you!!!!!
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Im seven days sober,,,,the nervous and anxiety has hit me hard...ill be having a pretty good day then bam!!!!! Please help!!!!
It's a pain in the nether-regions to deal with, but it is not at all uncommon. It will pass, day by day. Try to find nice quiet places to spend as much time as possible. I dealt with it by turning the ringer off the phone, plopping in front of the TV and watching mindless, funny, (If possible.) shows. Distract your mind, breathe, drink some ice-water.
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I'm naturally high-strung (to say the least) and was outrageously jittery in early sobriety -- I understand where you're coming from.

In early sobriety I didn't know what to do with all that energy. I'd been used to suppressing it by drinking. One thing I did was walk, walk, walk-- to AA meetings, convos with other alcoholics, museums, anything. Trapped in my apartment with nothing to do, my jitters felt like anxiety. But when I was moving, not so much.

Over time, find healthy ways to use your high energy & it won't often seem unbearably jittery. Especially -- I agree w/Anna -- if you learn to practice daily meditation. Meditation teaches you a way to slow things down.
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whats 478 breathing exercise????
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It's a pain in the nether-regions to deal with, but it is not at all uncommon. It will pass, day by day. Try to find nice quiet places to spend as much time as possible. I dealt with it by turning the ringer off the phone, plopping in front of the TV and watching mindless, funny, (If possible.) shows. Distract your mind, breathe, drink some ice-water.
will give that a try,,,,,thank you much!!!!!
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I'm naturally high-strung (to say the least) and was outrageously jittery in early sobriety -- I understand where you're coming from.

In early sobriety I didn't know what to do with all that energy. I'd been used to suppressing it by drinking. One thing I did was walk, walk, walk-- to AA meetings, convos with other alcoholics, museums, anything. Trapped in my apartment with nothing to do, my jitters felt like anxiety. But when I was moving, not so much.

Over time, find healthy ways to use your high energy & it won't often seem unbearably jittery. Especially -- I agree w/Anna -- if you learn to practice daily meditation. Meditation teaches you a way to slow things down.
thank you!!!! Will look into meditation,,,thanks!!!!
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i have an appointment with my doctor the 14th,,,gonna go walking the dog this afternoon!!!!
went walking,,,,even jogged a little!!!! So far feel pretty good!!!! Thanks!!!!
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whats 478 breathing exercise????
Dr Weil's 4-7-8 Breathing Technique

The 4-7-8 (or Relaxing Breath) Exercise

This breathing exercise is utterly simple, takes almost no time, requires no equipment and can be done anywhere. Although you can do the exercise in any position, sit with your back straight while learning the exercise. Place the tip of your tongue against the ridge of tissue just behind your upper front teeth, and keep it there through the entire exercise. You will be exhaling through your mouth around your tongue; try pursing your lips slightly if this seems awkward.

Exhale completely through your mouth, making a whoosh sound.
Close your mouth and inhale quietly through your nose to a mental count of four.
Hold your breath for a count of seven.
Exhale completely through your mouth, making a whoosh sound to a count of eight.
This is one breath. Now inhale again and repeat the cycle three more times for a total of four breaths.
Note that with this breathing technique, you always inhale quietly through your nose and exhale audibly through your mouth. The tip of your tongue stays in position the whole time. Exhalation takes twice as long as inhalation. The absolute time you spend on each phase is not important; the ratio of 4:7:8 is important. If you have trouble holding your breath, speed the exercise up but keep to the ratio of 4:7:8 for the three phases. With practice you can slow it all down and get used to inhaling and exhaling more and more deeply.

This breathing exercise is a natural tranquilizer for the nervous system. Unlike tranquilizing drugs, which are often effective when you first take them but then lose their power over time, this exercise is subtle when you first try it, but gains in power with repetition and practice. Do it at least twice a day. You cannot do it too frequently. Do not do more than four breaths at one time for the first month of practice. Later, if you wish, you can extend it to eight breaths. If you feel a little lightheaded when you first breathe this way, do not be concerned; it will pass.

Once you develop this technique by practicing it every day, it will be a very useful tool that you will always have with you. Use it whenever anything upsetting happens – before you react. Use it whenever you are aware of internal tension or stress. Use it to help you fall asleep. This exercise cannot be recommended too highly. Everyone can benefit from it.

(From Dr Weil's Website - there is also YouTube videos demonstrating this)
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Omg,,,,,i tried it liked it!!!! Will do it often!!!!! Thank you so so much!!!!!
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thank you!!!! Will look into meditation,,,thanks!!!!
With the jitters and high strung,,,,did you have any problems eating,,,,i do!!!! Almost no appetite?????
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