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Not much we can do to help if you keep it up stewy. Is this a new GF or the same one you split up with a while back? Drinking is going to make thigns much worse on that front....why not give yourself a chance?
Get rid of the "girlfriends" and work on yourself for a year.
BTW, we've ALL been through the broken heart situation. You're not the only one. Welcome to the rodeo, cowboy. Now knock off the pity party and stop drinking.
BTW, we've ALL been through the broken heart situation. You're not the only one. Welcome to the rodeo, cowboy. Now knock off the pity party and stop drinking.
I drank a lot during the end of a relationship and all it caused was more grief. I had to put down the bottle because the life I wanted could not begin if I was drunk and not clear headed. I know it's hard, and that you're hurting and I'm sorry bout that. Alcohol is a depressant and will only make how you're feeling worse. You deserve a great life without that poison.
Nothing will change as long as you continue on down this path of yours. I have also learned (about myself) that I didn't attract the people I would normally like to spend time with in my drunken state. Tended to feed off of that behavior. Much better living the sober life. Give it a try Stewy!
Stewy are you hoping news of your drunkeness somehow gets back to her and she'll call?
I used to do things like that.
She/They never called.
Don't waste a decade getting drunk like I did.
It made it immeasurably harder for me to move on because I never dealt with anything. Not One Singe thing.
all I did was wallow in self pity..
You may be living in your parents house again but you're not a child Stewy.. Your folks don't need this either.
Time to grab the reins.
Posting here after you start drinking is not a recovery plan.
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I used to do things like that.
She/They never called.
Don't waste a decade getting drunk like I did.
It made it immeasurably harder for me to move on because I never dealt with anything. Not One Singe thing.
all I did was wallow in self pity..
You may be living in your parents house again but you're not a child Stewy.. Your folks don't need this either.
Time to grab the reins.
Posting here after you start drinking is not a recovery plan.
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Donated the remaining beers to a friend, cleared my room of empty cans. This relapse is over, gonna sit and map out my plan. Girlfriend not called, she's not going to, there was a reason I left home and it wasn't working
its something that done. there is action required.
do you want to get sober?
are you willing to go to any lengths to recover?
I'm reminded of the most futile quote I've ever heard - "I'm going to try and make an effort" - that's the most foolish thing I've ever heard. As Yoda said, "Do or not; there is no try" Sounds like you made the right first step in "donating" the beers. Build on each small success and you'll see a miracle.
Like I said to someone else today Stewy when we lose someone we can have a tendency to fear we'll never have that kind of relationship again.
I guarantee you can and you will - and if you work on your recovery it'll be an amazingly better experience next time around for you and your new partner, whoever she might be.
You mentioned before that you stopped drinking but never really got to grips with the void in you and you were trying to fill it with other kinds of stuff.
I started to progress when I stopped trying to fill my void and started instead on healing it.
Nows the time to do that, & let the light in on that underlying stuff - and the first thing to do there is not drink anymore.
You can do this.
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I guarantee you can and you will - and if you work on your recovery it'll be an amazingly better experience next time around for you and your new partner, whoever she might be.
You mentioned before that you stopped drinking but never really got to grips with the void in you and you were trying to fill it with other kinds of stuff.
I started to progress when I stopped trying to fill my void and started instead on healing it.
Nows the time to do that, & let the light in on that underlying stuff - and the first thing to do there is not drink anymore.
You can do this.
D
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