Escaping reality Weekender 10 - 12th March
Thanks, Sao, for a great opener. Lots to chew on there. I particularly found your observation that addiction is akin to "overseer of our own slavery" insightful. How true.
Hope this gets all off to a solid, sober start. Julia, thinking of you.
Take care, all.
Hope this gets all off to a solid, sober start. Julia, thinking of you.
Take care, all.
No escaping reality for me this weekend, I'm stuck with the new sober reality and it's not that terrible these days. Just normal like most people! Lots of household chores I have put off during my busy work week. I dunno who these weekend warriors are that have the time to good off all weekend.
We drank or drugged ourselves into that fleeting Nirvana so often that we became overseers of our own slavery.
Too many words? Not possible. Great opening post. I agree with Gilmer though, there has never been a better time to be alive. If I stay away from TV news, talk shows, editorials, life is pretty darn good. I don't know why things have become so adversarial, but it is easy to ignore most of it.
Good to see Weasel.
I've just spent an uncomfortable hour on the phone and I'm now trying to remember to breathe.
Here's (it's long, but the first 10 minutes is pretty indicative of the rest, so just watch a couple minutes and you'll get the gist of it) eagle baby learning and yearning to soar on Tuesday. Lots of flapping around! Strengthen those wings. They grow up so fast.
Fly away, little one. Any day now.
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Hi, weekenders.
Thank you for the opening, Sao.
Reality - that is something that hurts me now. I am wrestling with bouts of depression and can't feel anything inside that can I use as a drive to press forward. I just want to stay in bed all day long. It takes a lot just to take care of simple things, let alone to decide what bathtub to buy for a new apartment, how to spread my thin budget to take care of all the things that should be taken care of, and so on and so far.
The job has been taking its toll for certain. Formalities about new job take more thane expected, so not sure when I can change jobs.
The good thing is that I am on 10 days vacations now and can catch my breath and take a break from work.
Missed you all)
Thank you for the opening, Sao.
Reality - that is something that hurts me now. I am wrestling with bouts of depression and can't feel anything inside that can I use as a drive to press forward. I just want to stay in bed all day long. It takes a lot just to take care of simple things, let alone to decide what bathtub to buy for a new apartment, how to spread my thin budget to take care of all the things that should be taken care of, and so on and so far.
The job has been taking its toll for certain. Formalities about new job take more thane expected, so not sure when I can change jobs.
The good thing is that I am on 10 days vacations now and can catch my breath and take a break from work.
Missed you all)
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All I do is waste time escaping reality.. at best, I merely disappoint others, at worst, allow someone to die when I could have prevented it.. That's what I see when I look back on my adult life.. My good days are the days where the only pain I cause is to myself.. All I do is waste this life, day after day..
I understand this. I chalk it up to depression for myself. I am also living on the thought that the more sober days that go by the better I will feel. It is an on going fight that I alone are in. I read a lot here. I read a lot of addiction books. We are in it together with an individual approach to lashing out at this horrible addiction disease.
I'm glad at least one person got my Walking Dead humor.
I've had a very difficult day at work.
I happened to mention to my mom on the phone that I am tired and I'm looking forward to my break in Dublin.
There was a silence before she said "who is going with you? I'll go with you".
Very quickly I told her "no you won't".
The answer I got was "I don't like the thought of you wandering around Dublin on your own".
I know some parts of Dublin are dangerous but I don’t go to those places. You would never guess that I am coming up to 40 years old would you?
I know I shouldn't say this because one thing I have learned is that most people love their mothers. The unfortunate thing is that we do not all come from happy Hallmark families.
Anyway I really really wish she would bog off and let me live my own life.
And I'm sorry if that sounds awful. But it's true.
I happened to mention to my mom on the phone that I am tired and I'm looking forward to my break in Dublin.
There was a silence before she said "who is going with you? I'll go with you".
Very quickly I told her "no you won't".
The answer I got was "I don't like the thought of you wandering around Dublin on your own".
I know some parts of Dublin are dangerous but I don’t go to those places. You would never guess that I am coming up to 40 years old would you?
I know I shouldn't say this because one thing I have learned is that most people love their mothers. The unfortunate thing is that we do not all come from happy Hallmark families.
Anyway I really really wish she would bog off and let me live my own life.
And I'm sorry if that sounds awful. But it's true.
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I've sure never felt anyone was looking down on my sober count compared to their own.
Great to see you on the thread Nons. I don't envy your task but it sounds like your new business is getting lots of clients which is awesome. Way to go.
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