Jojay

Hi everyone.Well I started a thread yestetday entitled 'Coming alive'.The replies were all Gold.Long story short...The pesky guy who had been bothering me at Church,by airing his opinions on our Church leaders etc,tried to engage me in conversation in a public cafe this morning.Not in my home town but a nearby one.Coincidence I know.I blanked him.He persisted.I continued to blank him.He then became aggressive.He did not physically touch me but was in my face.The manager was clearing tables so I called him over.I am sooo very proud of myself for dealing with this so well.

PhoenixJ

ardy

you had the right pull for a great response .....,,,
very proud of you.. go team go

D122y

Jo,

I give pesky people the evil eye. I don't even have to say anything usually.

They see that look. Usually, they say a rude remark...and leave me be.

If they are persistent...i will say...stay away from me....stop talking to me...etc

Rude folks need rudeness back at them. Then they get offended.

Hopefully your offender never gets physical.

Jojay

Hi.Well I did indeed throw this guy a stern look or two,prior to his over-the-top behaviour towards me.We all have a right to inter-act or not,with other folk.He made a fool of him self.I have never,ever given out any signals or body language to encourage him 'hitting on me'if that is maybe on his mind.Rant over!!Many thanks DY.

Midwest1981

great job! do you think you will have anymore problems with him on Sunday? I know you can't worry about it.

Jojay

If he has more than one brain cell,reckon he will give me a VERY wide birth.Many thanks Midwest.

Anna

Yes! This is how empowerment works!

Jojay

Thankyou Anna.And it sure feels good!!

Dee74

Wow that guy has issues - I'm really glad you're not engaging jojay

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Hevyn

Nice work, jojay. Sorry you had to deal with that mess - but you rose above it.

Jojay

Hi Dee.Nope,I am not going to engage with this 'stalker',for want of a better word.Thankyou for your support.Much appreciated.many to Hevyn aswell.