SnDnTN

I moved to a new state and I have been attending AA meetings. I'm not an alcoholic (haha that's what we all say). But honestly, drugs (any kind) are my thing. Ive been sober for a little over a month after being on an almost 5 year straight run. The HA meetings I have attended were more like a place to find a plug then anything else and so Ive settled in with a young group (I'm 27) of AA(er's). They're great! Super supportive but there are only a couple other girls and none have a lot of time under there belts.
I really want this to work, I've relapsed and ran back to my stupid ways too many times before. I really want to work the steps and I really want to do this the right way. I need a sponsor, badly! I don't know what to do and could really use either some advice. Do I have to be able to meet with a sponsor physically or is there somewhere online I could find someone, exchange info and numbers, talk on the phone, facetime or skype?

Marie0101

There is nothing universal that says you have to do anything any way that specific. (Work X program, meet X person in X way every X days ETc) It's what works for you. If you feel like meeting a sponsor in person would help go for it! Just remember you are picking a person that you find to be helpful to you. The only "right way" is the way that fits your needs. ❤️

tomsteve

why wouldnt you want a face to face sponsor?

Anna

I hope that you find something that works you. And, congratulations on 1 month sober.

fini

if you google AA sponsorship pamphlet, you will find most of your questions answered, SnDnTN.