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Old 12-14-2016, 10:11 PM
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Back to Life Weekender 15 - 18 Dec

Dee has allowed me to write the opening post this week as a guest so let me start by thanking him and also Weasel1966 who, along with Mecanix, started and curated this thread for some years. Big Shoes.

For some of us, weekdays still provide some sort of structure - commute, work, chores etc Even for those whom this is not the case the weekend still magnifies our drinking or drugging habits, even fewer reasons to hold us back from our addiction

Starting with Friday evenings eager anticipation it will end with Monday morning arriving, unbidden, like the Grim Reapers very own Sergeant Major. Inbetween will have been, at varying points, drinking, intoxication, blackout, hangover, rinse, repeat. It is not the actions of a living person.

One of the fundamentals of being a human being is to participate in life, have REAL relationships, do things and remember doing it. So this weekend perform a small miracle and come back to life.

A simple "In" is enough and if you are struggling do post here for support but it is als good to read what you are doing and how things are going

Ring! Ring! it is the sound of the freedom bus, please climb aboard

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Old 12-14-2016, 10:17 PM
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Shotgun!

I'm in!

What an encouraging post to lead us off, Sao.

Thanks!

I'm hoping for the structure of a normal life, interfacing with real people, rather than burrowed away by myself doing my own thing.
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Old 12-14-2016, 10:32 PM
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Congratulations on shotgun Gilmer!

I made a point of not mentioning Christmas as there will be enough of that next weekend but it goes without saying be wary of party invites
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Old 12-14-2016, 10:33 PM
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The weekends are actually pretty easy for me sobriety wise. I'm a chef so it's balls-to-the-wall for me Thurs, Fri and Sat. That's the part I love! Being busy, rocking out a ton of great food. The time goes by and my days are totally occupied and structured with work.
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Old 12-14-2016, 10:41 PM
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In. Slowly building a life back that has things i do on the weekend. Now i am not drinking, i am less of a flake so more willing to commit to things.
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Old 12-14-2016, 10:41 PM
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Thanks Sao - great opening post

I pack so much into my days now it still astounds me lol

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Old 12-14-2016, 11:03 PM
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Awesome intro Sao you done great shouts to D Ken Mecanix also

Great time if your a guest reading this to sign up & to all newcomers on thier first Christmas sober know were all here for you and if your not feeling ok that's ok too were here for you to

Be who you are x
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Old 12-15-2016, 12:47 AM
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What a bright moment amidst my day to see your intro, Sao!

I am in. Another challenging weekend for me, but I will figure it out.

Have a nice day, weekenders.

See you later.
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Old 12-15-2016, 01:05 AM
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I'm in - great OP Mr Sao. Thank you!
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Old 12-15-2016, 01:42 AM
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I'm in for the weekend. It will be the kickoff to my three week winter break! Hope everyone is doing well!
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Old 12-15-2016, 02:14 AM
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I've got a gun too?
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Old 12-15-2016, 02:25 AM
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I'm IN!!!!! It's already my weekend, 4 days off!

Busy weekend. Arrowhead hunting today, Wife's Birthday Friday, Granddaughters Sweet 16 bday party Saturday plus all the usual projects/chores and checking in with SR!
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Old 12-15-2016, 02:36 AM
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Originally Posted by PhoenixJ View Post
I've got a gun too?
Sobriety gives you a silver bullet to use against lost weekends PhoenixJ, thanks for posting and welcome to everone else

Like quitter62 for a lot of us there will be some extended weekends over the next two and a bit weeks but the thread is open 24/7

Meanwhile I had better get back to work.
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Old 12-15-2016, 02:41 AM
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In. I struggled with weekends for quite a while. They seemed endless Now I wish they were 5 days longer.
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Old 12-15-2016, 02:51 AM
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Im in for a sober weekend
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Old 12-15-2016, 03:01 AM
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Great post saoutchik. I'm In!
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Old 12-15-2016, 03:08 AM
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Great starter post saou! Hi Everyone, I am IN!
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Old 12-15-2016, 04:05 AM
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Sao you rock! Great OP sir!

I am in and happy to be here with you all!

Good to see some familiar faces.

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Old 12-15-2016, 04:10 AM
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I'm in, weekends can be pretty hard for me. I'm on my fourth one!!!
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Old 12-15-2016, 04:12 AM
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Yeah Pooky!!! Weekend number 4! Way to go!
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