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Old 11-23-2016, 11:26 AM
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Today, I bought a beach house....

A few years ago, I was bending under the weight of debts. That had been the theme for decades. Debts - not associated with assets like houses, but with poor decisions. And back taxes. And financial anxieties around every corner.

Now I've been debt free for a couple of years, my credit rating has improved greatly, I am remarried, have a baby on the way, three happy thriving kids that I have a great relationship with and whom I cherish, am writing a children's book, my career is strong, and today we closed on a second home - a beach house to make family memories in.

I've absolutely no doubt there is a direct correlation between all these things and sobriety. For many years, decades, I struggled along and went from one mess to another, one burning fire to another, juggling chainsaws all the way and drinking and drugging my emotions and responsibilities into submission.

With all that haze behind me, I've been able to magnify goodness in my life and things grow more and more positive as I go.

Those promises are real.....

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Old 11-23-2016, 11:30 AM
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How fabulous! Oh I miss the ocean. My daughter goes off to college in a couple of years.....think I'll get an RV!
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Old 11-23-2016, 11:38 AM
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Thank you

As a person who is juggling all those Chainsaws right now. i just want to wish you and yours a happy thanks giving..It is story like yours that keep me keep-ion this road of recovery(77days today)yes....THANK YOU
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stick with it.... every day, keep taking steps and actions in honor of sobriety, keep deepening your life.... it gets better and better!!
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stick with it.... every day, keep taking steps and actions in honor of sobriety, keep deepening your life.... it gets better and better!!
Thank you
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Congratulations
Enjoy your second home away from home.

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That is great, FreeOwl. Yours is an uplifting story that demonstrates the good things that can come from sobriety and recovery.
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Old 11-23-2016, 12:33 PM
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That is like a dream come true. Congratulations FreeOwl!
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Great news FreeOwl. You deserve your success and happiness
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Old 11-23-2016, 12:57 PM
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That's great news, FreeOwl.
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Old 11-23-2016, 01:01 PM
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That's awesome, I never thought of it like juggling chainsaws, but that imagery is perfect. Best to you.
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Old 11-23-2016, 01:11 PM
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That's wonderful. Congratulations.

And yes, those promises do come true.
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Congrats!!! I live just minutes from the Gulf beaches and I couldn't live without the beach and salt water nearby. The beach heals, that is for sure. So glad your children will get to make memories there and with a sober mom. Beautiful post!
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Congratulations! I have lived in NY and CA, always within easy driving distance of the ocean. There is something soothing and peaceful about crashing waves.
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That's awesome, Owl! Congrats!
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Old 11-23-2016, 03:33 PM
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Way to go Freeowl you sure do deserve it my friend.
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That's wonderful news! I wish you and your family all the best.
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Thanks for sharing that Free Owl. Congratulations

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Old 11-23-2016, 04:22 PM
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That is fantastic. You are a role model for guys like me FO. Congratulations.
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Old 11-23-2016, 04:31 PM
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A baby on the way!!!!!!!!!! How did I miss this??????

Congratulations!

Congrats on the beach house, too!!!!!

But, wow - a baby on the way. , FreeOwl
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