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Old 11-22-2016, 05:58 AM
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Today I am officially one year sober. Wow!

Looking back at the beginning of this journey I couldn't see past the next day. A year seemed like an impossible eternity away. So I focused on the only thing I could - the current day. Get through today and lets work on tomorrow. Get counseling and a plan in place to help give me a framework to lean on when needed.

I was heading down a path that was not going to end well for my marriage, my family, or myself. Accepting I had an issue and committing to new sober life has been the hardest and best decision I could have made.

In this past year working on being sober and building a new life I have:
- lost 22 pounds
- started a new side business that is going very well
- been more involved with my daughters daily activities
- grown closer to my wife (and appreciate her more)
- lived in the present
- been in complete control of myself (the most significant benefit to me)

Very proud of the class of November 2015 that has made it this far - especially RedAndy and Blueberry.

To you new comers - I know it seems impossible. I know it is hard. I also know if I can do this you can as well. You need to put yourself first. Get a plan in place (ask if you don't know what you need in a plan), and walk this journey one day at a time. Those days add up faster than you think.

We can do this.
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Old 11-22-2016, 06:00 AM
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Congratulations IronPhoenix! And thanks for sharing the benefits to your sobriety. I am starting to notice some of those things myself
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Thank you for sharing this inspirational post! Congratulations!!!
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Old 11-22-2016, 06:47 AM
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Congats Iron! An amazing achievement.
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Old 11-22-2016, 07:20 AM
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Congratulations, IronPhoenix!

1 year is fantastic.
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Old 11-22-2016, 07:51 AM
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Great job IronPhoenix!
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Awesome, IronPhoenix!! (I just posted yesterday what positive changes people have had in sobriety...and you listed a bunch!) Gives us newcomers so much hope
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Old 11-22-2016, 08:15 AM
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Grats to you on a year
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Old 11-22-2016, 09:15 AM
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Old 11-22-2016, 09:43 AM
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Congrats! One year is HUGE
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Old 11-22-2016, 10:30 AM
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1 Year is fantastic IronPhoenix!!
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Old 11-22-2016, 10:35 AM
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Congratulations on a year IronPhoenix, that's brilliant! Great post too!
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Old 11-22-2016, 10:54 AM
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Congratulations on one year IronPhoenix
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Congratulations Iron Phoenix

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Old 11-22-2016, 03:21 PM
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1 year is awesome! You are giving us hope =- Thank You!
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Old 11-22-2016, 03:27 PM
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Congrats on the first of many sober years. And thanks for being proof that it can be done.
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Old 11-22-2016, 03:34 PM
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Congrats brother been looking forward to seeing that new title all week - great post too mate, amazing and so rewarding how much more settled and happy the home life is hey, with you every step of the way.
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Old 11-22-2016, 08:48 PM
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Congratulations on one year Iron Phoenix!! Sounds like lots of wonderful things have happened this year along with your sobriety. Thanks for such an inspiring post!!

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Old 11-22-2016, 11:50 PM
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Congratulations, 'Phoenix! It's quite an accomplishment to get a whole year under your belt!

It's great to see the success you're having, and seeing you turn your life around like this. Keep it up!
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