A question about relapse Hello, I have drank on the 64 th day of my sobriety. I was feeling good and said what the hell. Than i realized i forgot that i was an alcoholic... Anyway i was able to stop drinking on the 3rd day and i am 10 days sober now. My question is will i have to go through all that process with the same intensity? Cause i am feeling anxious which i almost had none before i drank. |
I'd be inclined to feel that relapse is part of recovery. Can you imagine if we all could stop whatever we start just like that? I'd have stopped smoking 20 years ago! I'd say be kind to yourself. You dipped back into the old world and remembered why you wanted to ckme back into the new world. You're doing just fine. The anxiety I'd guess was part of the guilt I'd guess you're carrying with you for dipping back out for a bit. But in my self delusion world I think that shows a sense of stength and I'd be proud of yourself actually because you're making it. Keep on keeping on. It's perfectly normal to check out once. You're back on track. Xx |
Originally Posted by blackened83
(Post 6216625)
Hello, I have drank on the 64 th day of my sobriety. I was feeling good and said what the hell. Than i realized i forgot that i was an alcoholic... Anyway i was able to stop drinking on the 3rd day and i am 10 days sober now. My question is will i have to go through all that process with the same intensity? Cause i am feeling anxious which i almost had none before i drank. Perhaps this time you could try some kind of formal recovery program so you don't "forget" that you are an alcoholic? |
Drink lots of water, get good rest if you can. The anxiety should fade away in a bit. Congrats on getting back on the sober bus. You won't be sorry. Peace. |
I don't believe that relapse is part of recovery. I'm glad to hear that you're back and working on your recovery. I don't know if you will have to go through withdrawals again. I guess time will tell. Do take care of yourself and hopefully your anxiety will diminish soon. |
I'm with Anna on this one. And as Scott said, we go through the suffering of quitting again every time we start over. What kind of a program will you choose to work now to make this your last first time? |
Only way to avoid withdrawals is to never drink again. :) |
Originally Posted by Anna
(Post 6216672)
I don't believe that relapse is part of recovery. this is (i have) a serious and fatal disease for me to drink is to die my sobriety date is the most important thing in my life :tyou |
Welcome back Backened!! Great job on Day 10!! :scoregood |
Well, how are you feeling Day 10 this time around compared to Day 10 the first time you quit? There's your answer. Unfortunately, I think anxiety is part of the equation no matter what. |
Relapse is not part of Recovery. If you drink again the withdrawals are likely to be worse,Alcoholism is relentlessly progressive. Congratulations on 10 days sobriety,you need never drink again and your life will get better. Wishing you well. |
Yes. It will be the same, or worse, each time you drink again. Guaranteed. I delayed my recovery by a lot because I didn't know this. |
Originally Posted by ScottFromWI
(Post 6216661)
Yep, unfortunately subsequent withdrawals can be as bad, and many times worse than the last time. Perhaps this time you could try some kind of formal recovery program so you don't "forget" that you are an alcoholic? |
Originally Posted by Anna
(Post 6216672)
I don't believe that relapse is part of recovery. I'm glad to hear that you're back and working on your recovery. I don't know if you will have to go through withdrawals again. I guess time will tell. Do take care of yourself and hopefully your anxiety will diminish soon. I believe it can be not everyone's experience in recovery is the same. |
Originally Posted by blackened83
(Post 6216625)
Hello, I have drank on the 64 th day of my sobriety. I was feeling good and said what the hell. Than i realized i forgot that i was an alcoholic... Anyway i was able to stop drinking on the 3rd day and i am 10 days sober now. My question is will i have to go through all that process with the same intensity? Cause i am feeling anxious which i almost had none before i drank. |
Originally Posted by SWTPEA61
(Post 6217159)
Why is it worse when you relapse? There's also rhe psychological toll, your mind and resolve simply gets worn out with subsequent periods of bingeing. As it relates to all of us though, the OP included is that it's 100% preventable. This can be the last time anyone has to go through it if the truly don't want to. |
Originally Posted by ScottFromWI
(Post 6217248)
I don't think there is true scientific answer to that question, but it's true. Some people call it "Kindling" but whatever you call it you see it happen over and over again. Basically the rule of thunb shows is that every time you go back to drinking it progresses more quickly and withdrawal increases in severity. Personaly I ended up in the ER for heart palpitations and dangerously high blood pressure the last time I tried quit on my own, and I had not had either previous times. The extreme is that some people stare having seizures, mini strokes and of course DT's There's also rhe psychological toll, your mind and resolve simply gets worn out with subsequent periods of bingeing. As it relates to all of us though, the OP included is that it's 100% preventable. This can be the last time anyone had to go through it if the truly don't want to. I am not feeling like a relapse was coming, just feeling blue about work nonsense. Thanks. |
Originally Posted by SWTPEA61
(Post 6217165)
Anna I believe it can be not everyone's experience in recovery is the same. Saying it is a part of recovery means you are leaving the option to drink again open. That is a non starter for me- the choice is always on me and not drinking is permanent . Full stop. No matter what, at any cost, too any lengths. No one ever knows they will get one more chance at sobriety. So, yes, relapse is common but it is absolutely not necessary. I want to be sober more than I want to drink, period. |
Doh. I fell for the tripe my counsellor said when I was quitting h when I said about relapse is part of recovery. I don't mean that as a green light to go use again but about forgiving yourself when you stuff up because guilt can stop you getting back onto the road again. |
I've heard professionals use the line too Rea11y so don't feel bad. I do agree it's pretty counter productive to endlessly beat yourself tho - learn from your mistakes and move on is always best :) D |
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