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Old 11-12-2016, 02:43 PM
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I've been trying

This week has been hard.

I'm scared to death. Last Sunday I had six beers, then 2 every day for the rest of the week and today 4.

I don't want to do it anymore. It doesn't make me feel better.

I just feel so bad and the scary thoughts are awful.

Please if someone could share how they got through the first few days?

I just need to know I will be okay. So pathetic I know. I just need some positive thoughts. Thank you
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Old 11-12-2016, 02:46 PM
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Hope you feel better. I got through the first few days by reading Daily Reflections and Living Sober from AA. The spirituality really helped me. I also run every day for an hour which also probably helped.
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Old 11-12-2016, 03:26 PM
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Early recovery is rough. I anticipated that my addiction would work against my rational mind that wanted to quit. I was determined not to drink. And didn't. I suffered though early recovery, but I had been suffering through my drinking. So I stuck with not drinking and suffering that way.

But if I had had any sense, I would have gone to my doctor and gotten something for the withdrawals.

Is that an option for you.
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Old 11-12-2016, 03:28 PM
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I made sure I started when I had a couple of days away from work and basically hunkered down for a few days.

This worked for me, but may not be possible for you.

I also made sure I had lots of sweet stuff in, after all, on top of the alcohol I was deproving my body of a lot of sugar it had gotten used to having.

You can do this, but are right to think through the first days - it is important to start though
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Old 11-12-2016, 03:37 PM
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Hi Sassy - for me I posted a lot here.

Why not check out our November support thread - it's for everyone quitting this month. Lots of support - and all you need to do to join is post

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...art-2-a-4.html

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Old 11-12-2016, 03:39 PM
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I found that changing my routine in the early days helped a lot. When do you normally drink? Try to make plans to be doing something else at that time - exercising/walking/visiting a friend, anything that takes your min off drinking for a few minutes. You can get through this!
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Old 11-12-2016, 03:39 PM
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I just want to stop. I can't get anything for detox, I just ordered some of the supplements I have read about here.

I'm tired of drinking, I'm tired of feeling awful.
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Old 11-12-2016, 03:41 PM
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Thank you. I'm not going to buy any tomorrow. I just need the positive support to get this negativity out of my head.

I'm so tired of it.
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Old 11-12-2016, 03:54 PM
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Please remember if you feel unwell after quitting you can always go to the ER.

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Old 11-12-2016, 04:27 PM
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Yes, please do get medical help if things get bad.

To get thru the early days I stuck close to SR and posted and read like crazy. It helped my resolve to get such positive replies from the members here.
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Old 11-12-2016, 05:36 PM
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Just take it one day at a time! the days will add up quick. good luck tomorrow.
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Old 11-12-2016, 10:02 PM
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Welcome! I spent a lot of time reading and posting on here the first few days. I also planned out every minute of the time I would have normally spent drinking.

If you have any alcohol in the house get rid of it.

You can do this!
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