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Old 10-14-2016, 07:05 AM
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Old 10-14-2016, 07:36 AM
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Hi Moving forward do tea lots of tea and if you do the tea bag.. put that warm used tea bag on your tummy area and by the belly button.. it helps.. did that with my hubby for several months... foods do soft like you would give a baby. without salt and pepper and not to heavy for flavor.. it all helps so many prayers..
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Old 10-14-2016, 08:08 AM
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I'm thinking about the clinic, but afraid they won't let me leave, BAC and whatnot.
They may not, but if they don't it is for very good reason. You are killing yourself and they want you to live. So do we, I hope you go.
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Old 10-14-2016, 08:51 AM
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I don't even have a choice anymore. I don't think I can drink my way out of this. Please keep me in your thoughts. I wish I had the strength to stop.


Best of luck - despite what you think, you CAN do this ! 🙂
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Old 10-14-2016, 02:52 PM
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Still wishing the best for you MF - go see the Clinic - at least listen to what they have to say?
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Old 10-14-2016, 03:04 PM
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I so wish I could turn back time and insist my best friend get help sooner, medical help earlier would have saved her life. Please join me in honoring her life in sobriety. It's been easier for me to with stain having her image in my mind, so sick. Best to all.
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Old 10-14-2016, 03:33 PM
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Thanks Thomas, I can't even hold enough down to taper. I followed your journey and I know I can't do it. I'm in a slow and miserable withdrawal and when the last beer is gone it gets worse. I'm thinking about the clinic, but afraid they won't let me leave, BAC and whatnot.
what would be bad about that? why would you be afraid of them not letting you leave? youd be somewhere safe with people helping you and could set you up with rehab and/or aftercare.

seems going to the clinic would be the best, safest thing for you to do.

I truly hope you go. withdrawl is serious and deadly.
and you deserve to the help getting sober.

MF, ya titled the thread "hospital or death."
and said, ' I don't have a choice any more." you do have a choice, but going to the hospital/clinic should be your only choice.

don't let fear keep you from going. get some courage and get going!!
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Old 10-15-2016, 09:05 PM
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Thoughts are with you MF...
I've lost count of how many times i've ended up in ER after a bender and everytime it was for the better or god knows what would've happened...

Don't hesitate going there MF x
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Hello MF.
Choose life and go get help.
You only get one show at it.
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Old 10-16-2016, 05:57 AM
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I'm still here. Working through my day 1. Thanks for the replies and good thoughts.
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Old 10-16-2016, 05:59 AM
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Morning- glad to hear from you.

What is your plan today?

Just don't drink- today. You can do this.
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Old 10-16-2016, 06:19 AM
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No plan today other than hoping the withdrawals don't get much worse and keeping a phone nearby. I've told my ex I'll check in regularly.
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Old 10-16-2016, 07:26 AM
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MF are you eating?
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Old 10-16-2016, 07:32 AM
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Hi MF.... I'm working on my day 1 today too.. Not feeling very well either but we can get past this. I have also been to the ER several times. They pump you up and send you home. Replenish your vitamins and electrolytes. Good luck!!
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Old 10-16-2016, 08:24 AM
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Just trying to eat a little here and a little there. Afraid I can't manage much more.

I've been in the hospital too many times to remember but not these last few times.

Hanging in there.
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Old 10-16-2016, 08:48 AM
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Good luck MF, you can do this, you really can. :-)

Hugs and some prayers winging their way to you.
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Old 10-16-2016, 10:50 AM
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You can do this MovingForward!! SR is in your corner!!
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Old 10-16-2016, 11:48 AM
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MF, go to the hospital. Here in the uk they have a policy to NOT admit withdrawing alcoholics, imagine that. They just check your vitals, if the checklist says you're unlikely to die at this very instant, they kick you out with a phone number to a community addiction centre. By checklist I mean bp systolic beneath 220(!), heartrate below 130, breathing slower than 20 a min, o2 sat over 94%, so off you go, get a drink so you don't die, and don't let the door hit you on the way out. I had to lie and promise to off myself before they admitted me for 24 hours and stabilised me somewhat.

Seriously man, if you live in a country that actually allows you to get help with withdrawal, use it. I was at the point of drinking a beer every hour or two as well. no sleep, no food, just booze 24/7 for two weeks. Couldn't even get drunk at that point, just drank so I didn't shake, and so that my head didn't explode, so I feel you man, I do. Get. Help. People die like this all the time, and its pointless, and wasteful, and needless. You really wanna become a statistic?
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Old 10-16-2016, 11:57 AM
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Hi Moving Forward,

Just checking in on you. I hope you decide to go to the hospital, if they keep you use that time to get yourself started on a recovery plan.

You can do this!
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Old 10-16-2016, 02:39 PM
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Hoping you're doing ok, MovingForward

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