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Old 08-23-2016, 07:13 AM
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Hey everyone, I found this site a few days ago and have been reading some of your posts while trying to get the nerve to post my own. My boyfriend is an active alcoholic who is currently on a wait list for rehab. I have some questions as to what do I do in the meantime?? Can someone point me in the right direction and let me know the best place to post?
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Old 08-23-2016, 07:19 AM
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Welcome! You've come to the right place. I'm not sure how to post links but someone will be along shortly who can do it, I'm sure. I know there is a friends and family forum on this site. In the meantime, glad you're here. Your boyfriend is lucky to have your support.
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Old 08-23-2016, 07:45 AM
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Welcome to the Forum Newf!!
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Old 08-23-2016, 07:51 AM
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Hi Newf,
Try here Friends and Family of Alcoholics - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information
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Old 08-23-2016, 07:52 AM
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Welcome Newf. The friends and family forum is a great place to get advice for your situation. Does your boyfriend recognize he has a problem and willing to get help? He needs to do this himself and his life. You get to benefit from that but if he's not ready to do it for himself it usually doesn't work long term. You should look at Al-anon for face to face support.
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Old 08-23-2016, 04:35 PM
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Hi Newf - Welcome

It's great your boyfriend is on a waiting list. As to what you should do, have you considered something like AlANon - you need support too?

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Old 08-23-2016, 06:56 PM
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Hello there...I'd suggest you also look through this board at the posts problem drinkers write in the Alcoholism and Newcomers boards. It could help you understand better what he's going through. We all seem to share similar experiences.
Maybe you could also direct him to this board. Spending lots and lots of time on this board was one of the biggest things that helped me quit

I agree, he's lucky to have your support
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Old 08-23-2016, 07:29 PM
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Welcome to the family. Read around the site. Lots of good advice and wisdom here. Friends and Family forum is very helpful too. I'm glad you found us and joined us.
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