Takes losing family to finally go to a meeting!!!
Takes losing family to finally go to a meeting!!!
My wife has had it. 10 years of hints she has been giving me. Sleeping in the other room, writing " I'm Done " in lipstick on the bathroom mirror, or just telling me she's done. Never listened or believed her. " How could she leave me, I make all the money and support us?" That was my stupid thinking. Never listened. I think at this point she would rather sleep in a cardboard box then put up with my ****. Wept like a baby today for hours. Didn't even know I could do that. Now I see here an hour early for a meeting. It may be a futile effort to get her back but I'm hoping it saves my life. Always said I've never hit rock bottom. Well here I am. 25 years of battling this thing, I'm ready to give up. :-(.
Going to AA is a good start. Going to AA, getting a sponsor, and working the steps is a solution. It is difficult to forecast the future of your marriage but one thing is certain. If you continue to drink things will only get worse but if you embrace AA there is a bright future. It will not happen immediately but it will happen
Pick up what pieces of life that you have left and attend as many meetings as you can, get a solid moral Sponsor and stay sober.
I have seen this work very well for many,many drunks that had made a firm decision to stop drinking for good.
They say it works if we work it ?
Key word there might be (if).
Mountainman
I have seen this work very well for many,many drunks that had made a firm decision to stop drinking for good.
They say it works if we work it ?
Key word there might be (if).
Mountainman
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