Help Relapse! Hi I am struggling, I just went 21 weeks sober -but then fell, I am know in a relapse and I don't know what to do. I have just put the glass down but I am scared about the night ahead. I also want to stop smoking. I am sat in my room alone its 7.30pm Uk time - I am now back to watching the clock to get through the next 24 hours. I feel miserable and ashamed of my myself. Is there anyone how can help ?? |
August thank you for replying - I have often read this site but had never the nerve to say anything. I am not well I have not eaten anything in days just been dealing with the wine witch but I am fed up now. I have work tomorrow - cooking and hope that this will help me through I am a much better person when I am sober - and this is the first time in my life That I truly don't want this poison in me. I WAS DOING SO WELL! |
and you can do well again!! Coming here is a huge step toward waking up. |
How can I do well again? I just feel miserable. I am just crying. My nerves are shot and in the next 3 hours the acolhol will leave and I feel really crap. I am normally a really strong person but this witch has a hold of me and I hate her. |
Originally Posted by kpblue
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How can I do well again? I just feel miserable. I am just crying. My nerves are shot and in the next 3 hours the acolhol will leave and I feel really crap. I am normally a really strong person but this witch has a hold of me and I hate her. |
The first few days are hard - try to do something that doesn't take a lot of concentration but will pass the time. Read on SR or get a recovery book on kindle. I am a fan of adult coloring - easy to do and next thing you know you've got a pretty picture and an hour has gone by. Look at photo albums, watch a favorite sitcom you've seen a few times. Play solitaire on your phone or with actual playing cards. Drink water and non-caffeinated tea. Good luck. |
its just getting through the next few hours - I finally eaten just a few bits of chicken its no 9.30pm I feel really lonely there's not many people I can talk too. August how are you doing? 102 days is epic! Grace and scott have you ever relapse and how did you cope? |
Originally Posted by kpblue
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its just getting through the next few hours - I finally eaten just a few bits of chicken its no 9.30pm I feel really lonely there's not many people I can talk too. August how are you doing? 102 days is epic! Grace and scott have you ever relapse and how did you cope? |
Hey kpblue, I know how you feel, I´ve been there before like so many others. These "others" I´ve found at AA and thanks to that fellowship I´ve been sober for almost a year. I like it so much I go there 3 times a week although the urge to drink has been history long before. You can do this! S |
thank you for all your replys and kind words - I am going to try to sleep now. thank you. |
Kpblue, I know it's really tough to face a relapse and get going again, but many of us have had to do that and I know that you can do it, too. You will feel better tomorrow and I hope your positive attitude starts to return. |
Kp - I also relapsed numerous times. It doesn't mean we're doomed to keep doing it - I now have over 8 yrs. sober. I finally grew exhausted from trying to be a social drinker. It was going to kill me if I let it. You can reclaim your life & never go back to feeling this way. |
Maybe come here and chat BEFORE the relapse!!!! Get back on the sober train and start riding it!!!!!!!!! You can stay stopped, too!! |
Hang in there. Get sober again. 21 weeks sober is great. A relapse doesn't take that away. I had 4 months sober and everything was great! My meetings, counselor, support system. Everything was rock solid. Then, relapse. Well, I'm on another 4 months. A relapse is like a plane crash. You pick up the pieces, examine what happened, and work to prevent it next time. Get right back sober and stick with it. |
Hi kp, you've been sober before so you can do it again! How did you stop drinking the last time? Did you go to AA or rehab or any other meetings/programs? I have been sober 8 months but I got a kick start going to inpatient rehab for 7 weeks. You said you don't have any support. Are there any sober groups around you that you can join, AA or Smart Recovery? |
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