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Old 04-13-2016, 06:02 AM
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New Member - Day 1

Hi. My name is Kara. I am making today my first sober day.

I woke up with a hangover from drinking nearly a whole bottle of vodka yesterday and again the day before. I'm tired of abusing alcohol and thinking I can control my drinking. I would love to get my life on track.


I hate being a drunk, which is what I frequently am. I just hope I can do it. Hangovers are no fun and I hate to think about the amount of money I spend on booze! It's just so pointless. I can't figure out why I let myself do this to me. It's nice to know I'm not alone however I don't have any kids (can't keep a man lol) but I do have a dog and I hate the way I ignore him when I'm drunk.
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Old 04-13-2016, 06:08 AM
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Welcome to the family, Kara. Have you made a plan for your recovery? I'll come back with some links for you. I also suggest you join the April Class, where you'll find lots of people in your situation. Stay close to us if you feel the urge to drink, there are always people here that will help you.
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Old 04-13-2016, 06:10 AM
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Welcome, Kara! You've come to the right place for support in getting sober. You may want to look in on the "Class of April 2016" thread to share with others starting their journey.
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Old 04-13-2016, 06:15 AM
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Welcome, Kara. We have all been there. It is great that you have taken the step and posted here on SR. You will find a lot of support. Keep posting whenever and whatever you have on your mind. Someone is always listening. ♡ChloeRose
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Old 04-13-2016, 06:18 AM
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Welcome Kara!!

I hope you join the class of April 2016. It is a great group!

We have all been here. You don't have to have another hangover.
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Old 04-13-2016, 06:31 AM
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Thank you

Thank you all so much! It's nice to know I'm not alone. I'll check out the April class thread now. x
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Old 04-13-2016, 06:46 AM
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Welcome to the family. You'll find lots of support and good ideas here.
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Old 04-13-2016, 06:51 AM
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Kara, many of us have been inspired by our pets to be better people. I'm glad that you have decided to stop drinking. You are not alone, and you will find lots of inspiration here.
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Old 04-13-2016, 07:31 AM
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Welcome Kara
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Old 04-13-2016, 10:45 AM
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I drank a fifth of vodka pretty much every day for over a year. I am glad I didn't have a dog then because the poor thing would have never gotten out of the house. My girlfriend at the time stuck around as long as she could but she had a breaking point.

My vodka drinking days were my worst days of alcoholism. drinking a bottle alone is a sure sign that you need professional help.
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Old 04-13-2016, 10:51 AM
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Hi Kara! Congratulations for starting a sober life!

Here is a good daily check-in thread (formerly the "24-Hour Club"):

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ml#post5902537
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Welcome to the SR family, Kara. I am glad you found us.
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Old 04-13-2016, 02:54 PM
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Hi and welcome again Kara

Being part of this community really helped me to get past that period where I'd try to convince myself I'd over reacted and I was 'not that bad'.

Reading my own posts back and other peoples stories convinced me I belonged here

I know we can help you too

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