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Old 04-04-2016, 03:28 PM
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afternoon struggle, blaaaahhhh

I am on day 4 and just got home from work and I am really tired and was hungry. I really wanted to go for some wine, telling myself that I am off tomorrow and its cool I should just go get a bottle. I did feel better after I had some granola and yogurt. I have 2 yoga classes from 6:30-9p. If I can make it through and just get through these next few hours I will make it. Struggling a little right now though. Maybe a nap would help.
hmm.
Trying to focus on the goals... Writing this out and looking at what is going on on the inside is kinda helping me see what I look like in a desperation kind of light... but in a good way, cause I can recognize that. Does that make sense?
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Old 04-04-2016, 03:55 PM
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Makes sense to me!
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Old 04-04-2016, 04:32 PM
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The first week or two can be rough, but if you get thru it, you never have to go thru this again.
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The early days are about taking care of basic needs which you are awesomely doing; stay strong
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Enjoy your yoga classes, then come home and get ready for an early bed time, and call it another day sober
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that makes sense. writing down how i feel has helped me a lot too.
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Makes perfect sense. Getting home from work in the evenings until about 7 or 8 p.m. was my toughest time during the week. It took a while to change my habits and "retrain my brain". That, and cleaning house on Saturdays without drinking. I actually learned that it is possible to clean a house and do laundry sober. It took awhile, but I finally got the hang of it!
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Old 04-04-2016, 07:07 PM
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Great job pushing through!

Keeping snacks like fruit or nuts in my bag or car really helps when I get "hangry".
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Old 04-04-2016, 07:24 PM
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Thanks everyone, unfortunately I took a nap and decided to not wake up til several hours later cranky and annoyed by the world. I missed yoga, feel like I slept away a beautiful afternoon.. but hey, never got that bottle of wine..
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Maybe your body was telling you about that "T," in HALT. I'm glad you got some rest!!!
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Old 04-05-2016, 01:32 AM
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Old 04-05-2016, 11:02 AM
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Maybe you really needed that nap. Your brain is trying to heal.
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Old 04-05-2016, 01:01 PM
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I'm almost 4 months sober and still struggle in the afternoon - its my witching hour - so I completely understand - it gets easier - the cravings move on quicker as time goes on!
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As posted the first few days or a week can be rough, it sure was for me.

Yoga is excellent however, I learned how to do step 1 and 2 while in Detox almost 3 years ago.

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