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Old 04-03-2016, 08:47 AM
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Hi all. So far so good, I went shopping, popped into Macdonalds for a milkshake(not somewhere I usually go) walked my dogs and cut the grass. Exhausted but sober..
Way to go. Well done.
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Old 04-03-2016, 09:03 AM
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Well done Kaily. It's nice to finally see some sunshine isn't it. Makes being out and about so much nicer.
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Old 04-03-2016, 09:06 AM
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Have you got phone numbers of people from the AA meetings?

Always a good idea to call them when you are struggling.
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Old 04-03-2016, 10:50 AM
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Great job Kaily, that's a win!
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Old 04-03-2016, 11:29 AM
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Hi all. So far so good, I went shopping, popped into Macdonalds for a milkshake(not somewhere I usually go) walked my dogs and cut the grass. Exhausted but sober..
Go you
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Old 04-03-2016, 11:35 AM
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Hi all. So far so good, I went shopping, popped into Macdonalds for a milkshake(not somewhere I usually go) walked my dogs and cut the grass. Exhausted but sober..
You are amazing
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Old 04-03-2016, 11:50 AM
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I also have borderline personality disorder which plays havoc with my emotions.
Have you done any Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)?

My DBT skills are self-taught from a book and the internet, but if you have a diagnosis of boderline personality disorder you can probably get DBT on the NHS.

For me, the skills are essential for my sobriety. Things like distraction, acting the opposite, radical acceptance. They cover four main areas, one of which is emotion regulation.

If you've done some DBT, could it be helpful to use it now?
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Old 04-04-2016, 01:15 AM
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Originally Posted by Zeroine View Post
Have you done any Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)?

My DBT skills are self-taught from a book and the internet, but if you have a diagnosis of boderline personality disorder you can probably get DBT on the NHS.

For me, the skills are essential for my sobriety. Things like distraction, acting the opposite, radical acceptance. They cover four main areas, one of which is emotion regulation.

If you've done some DBT, could it be helpful to use it now?
Hi, No I haven't. I am on a waiting list for cognitive analytical therapy but they won't start unless I am free from alcohol.
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Old 04-04-2016, 02:27 PM
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How are you doing today Kailee, hope you're still hanging in there. Hugs elle
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Old 04-04-2016, 08:20 PM
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Hi Kaily,

Nicely done making it through the day yesterday, how are you feeling today?
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Old 04-04-2016, 11:11 PM
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Its Sunday..the shops cant sell booze till 10.
You'll have time to "play the tape" through of what will happen if you do drink. Forget about the first two hours after you start, and concentrate on what happens once control is lost.
Plus if you can distract yourself, the urge will pass
Good one. Thanks you just helped me.
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Old 04-05-2016, 01:16 AM
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Sending you hugs Kaily
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