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Old 03-31-2016, 05:15 PM
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2442 Reflections

I spend a lot of my alone time pondering my sobriety. I've been sobčr 2,442 days. Holy crap, nothing compared to 20 or 30 years but this sobriety stuff is working for me.

Tonight I was thinking about the willingness to change and how this willingness is a very large reason that I'm sober.

I had be and continue to be willing to change everything. People, places, things. I had to give up fighting everything and everybody. I had to realize I'm not going to change anybody and changing myself is full-time job. I had to never be satisfied with the status quo because if I wasn't moving forward I was moving backward.

Sobriety for me is not about trying make my old life work without alcohol it is about reinventing myself. It is about creating a new life based on values, honesty and and making this world just a little bit better
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Old 03-31-2016, 05:44 PM
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congrats on your 2442 days MIR
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Old 03-31-2016, 05:50 PM
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You are so right, MIR. Congratulations on your 2442 days. I know it hasn't been easy, but you're still here and still going. That's fantastic!
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Old 03-31-2016, 06:02 PM
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Nothing special about 2442 other than it is kind of a cool number.

Change and growth is what is on my mind and how essential they are to my recovery.

There is no doubt I have gone through some unwanted changes. Changes I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy but in the long term who knows how they will play out.

The changes I am talking about are the ones necessary to stay sober
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Old 03-31-2016, 08:00 PM
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Well said MIR. Congrats on 2442...it is a cool number and an awesome achievement!
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Old 03-31-2016, 08:58 PM
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That's a long time of being sober. You should be proud of yourself!!
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Old 03-31-2016, 10:43 PM
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MIR, you have withstood the storm, had your sobriety tested beyond the average person’s breaking point, and here you are, still standing and with 2442 days. Your resilience is admirable.
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Old 03-31-2016, 10:46 PM
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Originally Posted by MIRecovery View Post
Sobriety for me is not about trying make my old life work without alcohol it is about reinventing myself. It is about creating a new life based on values, honesty and and making this world just a little bit better
Thank you for your entire post, but this in particular. It's what I needed to hear today.
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Old 03-31-2016, 10:49 PM
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MIR, you are an inspiration to all of us on SR. Thank you for all of your posts and your comments, and congratulations on such an amazing amount of sober time!!!

❤️Delilah
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Old 04-01-2016, 01:29 AM
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Nice numbers Mir congrats
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