25 days sober then I blew it!!! I just had to join in!!! but I am determined to do it for good this time. Today is day 5. xxx |
Five days is great, Spadge! Are you doing anything more for your sobriety? |
Congrats on day 5 are working a plan/programme ? |
Thanx hun no I did it last time by relying on you guys and my faith in God and found it extremely easy to do. It was my daughter's wedding day n the champagne was flowing, I couldn't resist! I know that I have to avoid anywhere that has anything to do with alcohol. xxx |
Originally Posted by soberwolf
(Post 5856087)
Congrats on day 5 are working a plan/programme ? |
A plan/programme is like AA, Smart, Avrt lifering SoS etc Here are some links that are very useful http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ery-plans.html http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ful-links.html Best of luck x |
Well done for coming back spadge, we're missing you over at the Feb class. |
Congrats on Day 5, Spadge! We have to use all the modalities we can to stay and live sober. Try building up a toolbox. Best wishes! Congrats on your daughter's wedding! |
Originally Posted by soberwolf
(Post 5856107)
A plan/programme is like AA, Smart, Avrt lifering SoS etc Here are some links that are very useful http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ery-plans.html http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ful-links.html Best of luck x |
Originally Posted by OldTomato
(Post 5856115)
Well done for coming back spadge, we're missing you over at the Feb class. |
I was determined more than anything to remain sober in early recovery no matter what I had to do. For me, after I spent 28 days in rehab via a family intervention, I took the tools of recovery, the knowledge of my addiction and its affects on me and others around me and incorporated them in many areas of my life. I was about 30 when I entered recovery with 2 little ones and about 8 yrs married. I remember when I left the rehab facility and returned to my home, I was still filled with anger for what my family had done to me. They intervened on my drinking career, getting me help when I had no idea how sick I truly was. It was them who did for me what I certainly couldn't nor would have don't for myself. Some 25 yrs ago, I know deep within that I am grateful for them getting me help at that time in my life. When I resumed my life at home, I knew what I needed to do to remain sober one day at a time. It took yrs incorporating all that was taught to me to eventually want to do them each day to remain sober. I became responsible for my own recovery. Going to meetings, step studies, Big Book studies, continueing to learn, to listen, to absorb, to apply many suggestions that was so graciously passed on to me guiding me along in my journey in life to achieve health, happiness and honesty for yrs to come. If it was suggested to stay away from alcohol or anything to do with alcohol I did it to the best of my human ability. In some cases, it is unavoidable to keep away from it like if it is a wedding. HOWEVER...... Just because I am an alcoholic in recovery, someone who will never have control over their drinking, my addiction to it, doesn't mean other have the same illness or problem. I always had a plan in place, protected my sobriety, recovery by going that extra step or mile to remain sober. Meaning, I had a way to escape if I needed to. Drove my own car after I did what I was suppose to do at any function. Made my apprearence and got out of that situation as quickly as I could without causing a scene. Quietly slipping away. Also having a buddy with me for support. Use ur phone if you have to call for help. To do whatever one needs to do to not drink or drug. There are many programs of recovery available to everyone to learn about addiction and help them stop the insanity that comes with addiction. I never want to be a statistic or another person who had the opportunity to educate oneself with a program of recovery and not take it if offered to me. I don't want to be another person to die of this horrible illness when there is always help available to us. Listen Learn Absorb Apply |
Thank you Sharon fortunately there are no more planned special occasions as far as I know and I avoid the booze aisle when shopping and if I meet friends we will go to a cafe instead of a pub. You must be so very proud of yourself hun xxx |
Day 5 is fantastic Spadge!! Keep it going!! :scoregood |
Thank you spadge. Im grateful to have used a program of recovery offered to me each and everyday to work on many of life's lessons that seem to baffle me at times. It definitely has helped me avoid making lots of the same mistakes I often continue making because im too stubborn to make a change. Im just one of many folks in the world of recovery, the fellowship of recovery that puts forth extra effort each and every day I am sober. Im never gonna be perfect nor want to be, but rather to progress to being a better person not only to myself but to others around me. It takes daily maintenance in my life each day, checking my motives or defects of character that can pop up at anytime ruffling my feathers, tempting me , whatever negative forces are lurking even around those alcohol isles at Walmart. :) The poison isle with bottles covered with skulls and crossbones in my minds eye. Stay strong and focused on staying sober each day. :) |
I hope this time you can stay sober for good. :) |
Spadge, I'm glad to hear you're on Day 5, that's terrific! I hope you do whatever it takes for you to get and stay sober. |
Welcome back :) I'm always at people to make a plan. If you have a plan and you drink anyway, I think thats a sign that your plan needs more work? it's a good idea to think about what you need to add to what you've been doing to make sure it doesn't happen again :) D |
Originally Posted by spadge
(Post 5856080)
I just had to join in!!! but I am determined to do it for good this time. Today is day 5. xxx Amy |
Hi spadge, I'm glad you are back. Sorry you drank, but all is not lost. Just pick up on your sobriety where you left off, and listen to the others on here about making a plan. It can be one that YOU build, a "spadge plan". That's what I did, it's a custom-built FormerWineGirl plan. But I keep an open mind, and if and when it needs a major overhaul, I will take it in for a tune-up ☺ |
Have a good day Spadge |
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