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Bunny211 03-01-2016 10:40 AM

Caffeine !
 
Ok so, I am trying to wean myself off of coffee. Amazing how I switched from liquor to coffee. On a daily basis this is my caffeine consumption:

Large Dunkin Donuts iced coffee with a turbo shot (shot of expresso) on the way to work.

1-2 more cups of strong coffee in the morning

Diet coke with lunch

Medium iced coffee with a shot of expresso around 1

1-2 more cups of coffee over the course of the day

Diet coke with dinner

Medium iced coffee with a shot of expresso before my nightly AA meeting.

So...all together that amounts to about 10 "Standard" cups of coffee a day and 2 diet cokes.

Holy crap.

I'm starting to get really bad headaches lately. Not sure if it is from TOO much caffeine or caffeine withdrawals. I need to drink more water and I need to cut back on the coffee. What's the best way? Cut down immediately to 1 cup a day? Or cut out the evening coffee....or gradually taper down?

Anyone have experience quitting caffeine?

I'm such an addict. Who in their right mind drinks this much coffee?!

ScottFromWI 03-01-2016 10:50 AM

I was forced to cut way back on caffeine after some limited sober time because it started making my anxiety go through the roof. Not sure why I never had that problem when I was still drinking, but now I can't drink more than one or 2 cups of regular coffee in the morning without being a nervous wreck for a while.

The headaches are most likely from withdrawal....you are drinking a LOT of caffeine.

MikeM 03-01-2016 10:56 AM

That much caffeine can cause headaches and other problems. Good idea to quit! You're also getting way too much sugar.

I'd just quit it all at once. You may experience some withdrawal symptoms, though not everyone gets them.

I needed to quit coffee when I quit drinking, since it suddenly started to give me anxiety attacks. I tested it today and the anxiety still happens.

But I did quit for a while and didn't notice anything special. You get used not having caffeine pretty quickly.

After you've quit, you can always see if you can stick to a couple of cups a day.

And if you want something as a replacement, go for green tea! I love it. It has so little caffeine in it that I can drink 10 cups and have no anxiety. And it's very healthy as well!

spadge 03-01-2016 10:57 AM

I was drinking upto 12 coffees a day and drinking diet coke too! I had really bad anxiety and my psychiatrist had to give me some diazepam.

He also told me that I shouldn't have more than two cups of coffee a day and to cut the diet coke out.

I now have four cups of coffee and drink blackcurrant instead of diet coke. I still wake up with a headache tho as if Ive been on the bottle. Don't know why that is tho. But the anxiety has gone since.

MikeM 03-01-2016 10:59 AM


Originally Posted by ScottFromWI (Post 5825907)
I was forced to cut way back on caffeine after some limited sober time because it started making my anxiety go through the roof. Not sure why I never had that problem when I was still drinking, but now I can't drink more than one or 2 cups of regular coffee in the morning without being a nervous wreck for a while.

The headaches are most likely from withdrawal....you are drinking a LOT of caffeine.

I have the exact same anxiety problem Scott. When I quit alcohol, caffeine started to turn me into a nervous wreck. High anxiety. Weird. But I don't feel like I'm missing anything. I'm fine with water, milk and green tea.

Btw, when I was taking CBT, they told me that some people they get that need help with anxiety just needed to quit drinking coffee. And their problems would be completely gone!

Soberwolf 03-01-2016 11:16 AM

I was drinking energy drinks in my first year but I knocked that on the head

FreeOwl 03-01-2016 11:23 AM

Ive been yo-yo-ing in efforts to moderate for over a year.

Quitting hasn't worked because of headaches and nausea of withdrawal, but moderation invariably leads back to excess.

Basically, I find myself still stuck in an addictive cycle that is very much akin to tye cycles I had with nicotine, alcohol and other drugs.

I know that my life, my health, my mind and emotions will be better off with little to no caffeine but so far its the one remaining addiction i can't shed

Auggie 03-01-2016 11:31 AM

I went from 1/2 pot of coffee per day to 2 pots of coffee per day when I quit drinking. I've quit caffeine, cold turkey, in the past and ended up with a 3 day headache. I'm weaning. I've switched to green tea in afternoon and I'm making my coffee weaker than I usually do.

Grendhar 03-01-2016 11:48 AM

I quit caffeine once .. I was tired and my head felt almost swollen for 3 days .. 4th day I woke up feeling great. I have anxiety so at some point I will tackle the caffeine problem as well as the alcohol problem. Already dealt with the nicotine problem.

WMJ1012 03-01-2016 02:19 PM

Hi Bunny

I am also a coffee addict. Someone helped me by suggesting I pay attention to how coffee makes me feel.
I'm fine in the morning but after a few inches of coffee I start feeling stressed.

It was suggested to me to start drinking that half coffee-half decaf. The other day I even tried a DD decaf and it wasn't bad. Actually pretty smooth, at least while hot.

We have choices. We can treat it like we did alcohol or we can cut back.
I just have to remember to bring God into the picture. That is when I'm able to toss out the cup.

WMJ1012 03-01-2016 02:22 PM

Another thought I just had. One day a woman who noticed my skin was looking dry and I wasn't being as good to myself as I could be said to me: "Did you ever think of drinking water and saying, 'God, thank you so much for this fresh natural drink you provide me with.'"

least 03-01-2016 02:51 PM

I had to give up coffee in early recovery cause it was making my withdrawal anxiety a lot worse. But after a while I went back to my normal consumption, about 6 cups of coffee a day, down from 10 or 12. I just can't give it up altogether...

Zeebs 03-01-2016 02:53 PM

I quit caffeine a little over five years ago (too bad I didn't put down the booze then too). Like a good addict, I was pounding coffee and energy drinks all day long. The headaches after quitting were pretty awful, but they went away after a week or so. Good luck!

sobersolstice 03-01-2016 05:04 PM

When I was drinking alcohol, I would only drink one or two cups of coffee in the morning and was jittery and anxious as the alcohol made me anxious as it was.

When I was on the wagon for half a year, my coffee intake after the first month kept increasing to get that kick in the butt in the morning as I somehow felt more and more groggy in the mornings. This would perpetuate into the afternoon, and would always have coffee in my hand. After a while, I just started drinking half caff and eventually decaf. Months 4-6 felt great for me sober with little caffiene. I'm sure this will vary for most, but that was my experience.

greens 03-01-2016 05:29 PM

I was never a big caffeine drinker so I can't give you tips on tapering. But once you cut back there are fantastic teas like matcha,Yerba mate, or green/black/white teas that have low caffeine and are full of antioxidants.

On The Road 03-01-2016 06:22 PM

Hi Bunny. When I gave up booze, I also gave up coffee and soda at the same time because, like Scott said, my anxiety was sky rocketing through the roof. So my alcohol withdrawals also had some of the caffeine stuff in it too (like headaches). Over a year and I still don't drink coffee or sodas and I feel so much better. I do have one cup of caffeinated tea in the morning. Good luck on finding a balance!

JMZ 03-01-2016 06:23 PM

Coffees bad ???? :c008: I too like to drink coffee, a lot . My appetite for coffee hasn`t changed though since I quit drinking alcohol a year ago. I would also say to substitute some decaf in there a little at a time. And I also say CUT OUT DIET sodas altogether :scared: You can do it.

FormerWineGirl 03-01-2016 06:42 PM

Bunny if I drank that much caffeine, especially that late, I wouldn't sleep for a week!

It's interesting to hear from so many of you that caffeine has worsened your anxiety after quitting alcohol. I was actually just journaling about that very thing this morning. It took me awhile to put two-and-two together, but I definitely see a correlation now. I drink half caff first thing in the mornings at home, but lately have been following up with the "high test" coffee at work, followed by iced tea or diet coke at lunch. I need to put the breaks on.

advbike 03-01-2016 07:19 PM

Another coffee addict here. I drink 4-6 cups of brewed coffee a day here in SE Asia. Decaf or half calf are pretty much unavailable, so I'm pretty wired up by lunch time. I try to stop at 1pm, as we go to bed early here.

When I'm in the States, I drink half-caff Americano's or latte's. An espresso coffee has much less caffeine than brewed (drip) due to the steam extraction. It's better for you. As a result, my anxiety is lower and my sleep is better when I'm there.

Once I successfully get off the sugar, coffee is next. I don't want to quit entirely because I get some health benefits, but want to find a way to limit it to two cups per day. Hard to moderate because, well, I can't moderate anything enjoyable, lol..

SoberLife90 03-01-2016 07:35 PM

To keep things short. I just recently quit. Been a whole week without caffeine. I did get headaches. I took ibuprofen and that relieved the headaches. You are drinking 2 to 3x as much as I did btw. Yours looks more expensive than mine too. You could save a few bucks if ya quit. I believe in you. Don't give up. Treat it loke alcohol. Don't drink no matter what! (COFFEE)


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