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Old 02-13-2016, 02:28 PM
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Just realized something today

While I was out spending the afternoon with my son, it just dawned on me. I would not be spending this time with him today if I hadn't quit drinking. He is spending more quality time with me because I quit. I don't know why but I just realized that. Changes like that kind of happen without noticing I guess.
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Old 02-13-2016, 02:36 PM
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There are so many positive changes made thru sobriety. But my favorite is waking up feeling good.
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Old 02-13-2016, 02:43 PM
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It's a fabulous realization isn't it?!
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Old 02-13-2016, 03:02 PM
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Yeah, there are so many positive things that you might not even realize until it hits you. The additional time with loved ones is a big one.
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Old 02-13-2016, 03:42 PM
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What a beautiful realisation...here's to many more x
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Old 02-13-2016, 03:46 PM
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The wasted weekends and other days nursing hangovers were such a normal part of my life. I just figured that how it is at the time. Looking back now it was such a waste, at least fifteen or more years.

I am very grateful to not waste anymore precious days with that nonsense anymore.

I spent the day being productive around the house, hooking up new speakers and running new wire. Few years ago I would have been drunk or in bed with crippling anxiety.
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Old 02-13-2016, 03:48 PM
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It's great isn't it! We get our lives back! Nice one.
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Old 02-14-2016, 04:52 AM
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Excellent post
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Old 02-14-2016, 05:16 AM
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Although I'm lucky enough to still spend a lot of time with my family, it's dawned on me that when I'm drinking I'm not really with them because all of my focus is on when I can get my next drink or recovering from my last. I'm sure they've noticed a difference after just 10 days.

Enjoy!
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Old 02-14-2016, 03:13 PM
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Great post secret chord

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Old 02-14-2016, 03:22 PM
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It is nice to have your life back isn't it?
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Old 02-14-2016, 03:30 PM
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I'll add to that: being able to (safely ) drive my kid places at night.
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