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Old 02-10-2016, 11:59 AM
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Back to the meetings

well after another suicide attempt Friday night and waking up in hospital with my dad crying at my bedside was enough for me to say no more. I was wearing a nappy and apparently it took the hospital staff 7 hours to wake me up. so after 3 days in hospital wasn't to sure if I wanted to go to the meeting but I made myself go just pictured my dad crying and I'm now glad I went
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Old 02-10-2016, 12:02 PM
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I'm glad you're still here and that you went to a meeting.
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Old 02-10-2016, 12:02 PM
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Welcome back, danb!

I'm glad you went to that meeting. Please stick around this forum--join your class thread and post in the 24-hour club. Read around and post often--it works if you work it!
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Old 02-10-2016, 12:09 PM
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I'm glad you're alive!
Keep coming back...it works....it really does!!!
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Old 02-10-2016, 12:32 PM
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Very glad to hear that you are safe and seeking help Dan.
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Old 02-10-2016, 01:23 PM
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Be sure to get the right level of support about the suicide, too. That's some serious stuff. If whatever triggered that is still hanging around, please get that addressed.
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Old 02-10-2016, 01:49 PM
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wow.

I'm glad you're here, alive, and able to type those words.

Thank you for sharing with us. This is a heavy post that is a somber reminder of how deadly serious this stuff is.

Meetings... yes. Get to them. Pick up that Big Book too, if you haven't already. It's worth reading. Several times.

And keep your head in the game by staying active here with us... it helps.

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I'm very glad you're back here and safe.

I think any work on your recovery is a good thing.
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Old 02-10-2016, 01:52 PM
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Well done Dan on digging deep to go to the meeting, despite not wanting to...fantastic that you found the meeting helpful x
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Old 02-10-2016, 01:52 PM
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I am glad that you are okay, danb, and attending meetings.

Are you considering counseling to address and help with underlying issues?
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Old 02-10-2016, 02:06 PM
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I am so glad that you did not die. My X who was also an alcoholic committed suicide and it is so devastating for those left behind and such a waste.
You might not see it right now, but you have people who love you and you have things to give others too. Everyone has gifts and the potential to share them.

Glad you are going back to meetings and I hope you will also join us on the 24 hours club where we commit not to drink or drug for that day. It is a fun supportive way to hold ourselves accountable
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ml#post5789472

Hang in there, with support from a therapist, the folks in AA and us on SR you can pull through and come out on the other side. Life might not always be easy but it is worth living
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Old 02-10-2016, 02:10 PM
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I'm glad you survived this. I'd say the only way now is up you have no choice and if you got a list of phone numbers use it.
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Old 02-10-2016, 02:45 PM
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Old 02-10-2016, 02:58 PM
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Ok so this might be a little personal for me, but I had a friend who committed suicide. And let me tell you the reason why s/he did was sooooo not worth it. Had this person just waited it out, it would have all resolved itself in the end.

Nothing, and I repeat nothing is worth killing yourself or someone else. The situation might seem dire at first, but you can always do something, you can always talk to someone... Just remember you will have a lifetime to see the situation corrected, you have a lifetime to make amends and make something right, you have a lifetime- and you dont want to cut that lifetime short. You only get one. One life, One shot at life. One.

Im glad you are going to meetings, you dont want to ruin this one.
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Old 02-10-2016, 11:14 PM
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Really nice to meet you Danb
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Old 02-10-2016, 11:49 PM
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Well done for going to the meeting Dan. That took some impressive strength. I'm using you as inspiration to go to my first meeting tonight. If you can do it, I can. We're in this together. I'm proud of you
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